<![CDATA[Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It]]>You can disagree with me and have different perspectives but i won’t respond to any overly rude or aggressive language

I’ve been thinking abt this for a minute and it’s actually weird how young boys are socialized to accept things they KNOW are regarded as SA but are still expected to laugh it off or take it as a “flex” 😭

Like from early on it’s framed as “you’re lucky”r“you should want that” instead of what it actually is—your boundaries being crossed. So now you’ve got boys who are uncomfortable but feel like they’re not even allowed to say that, because admitting it ruins the image that they’re supposed to always want sexual attention.

And then trends like “catching print” literally just build on that.

It’s normalized to point it out, record it, laugh about it, and treat someone’s body like it’s public property—and if a guy is uncomfortable, it’s brushed off because “it’s not that serious.” That’s not just a trend, it’s a direct result of that same socialization.

And at the same time, it feeds into the exact system people claim to hate.

Because if the goal is to break down objectification, why are we recreating it in a different direction? I’m going to be straight and honest,being a sexual predator ahould NOT in any cases be seen as empowering or uplifting

Also not enough ppl talk abt how equating a small print (A print) to women’s cup sizes is weird in itself 😭 it literally just reinforces the same body standards that make women with smaller cup sizes feel insecure in the first place. Like we’re just recycling the same harmful scale and pretending it’s different when it’s obviously not,how do you claim to hate the beauty standards for women and uphold them to put down a man,it doesnt make sense

And honestly, this trend proves that a lot of ppl don’t actually want to dismantle the patriarchy—they just want to benefit from it when it works in their favor and have an excuse to be the perpetrator.

Because the bigger issue is the cycle it creates.

Boys get socialized to ignore their own boundaries → they grow up not respecting boundaries → that turns into objectification of women → women experience that and grow resentment → that resentment turns into wanting to harm or get back at men → which then reinforces men’s hostility towards women. (Idgaf abt anyone saying that I’m the problem or thag I’m victim blaming bc I’m saying It how it is,modern women are going to be the direct cause of future misogyny and abuse if they keep using their struggle as an excuse to perpetuate)
It just loops.

Nobody wins, and it just keeps feeding itself eternally

And then ppl wonder why everything feels so divided when we’re literally teaching each other to not take boundaries seriously from the start, young boys are taught to be sexual and told that it’s their nature and that leads them directly doen a path of expecting to get laid or feeling entitled to a women’s body,allowing those same boys to get assaulted and have their perception of intimacy skewers only worsens their beliefs

If like to hear about how
Women are socialized,I am not educated or knowledgeable enough to post about that nor do I have the experience to back up my claims

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/17402/boys-are-being-conditioned-to-accept-sa-and-catching-print-proves-nobody-wants-to-fix-itRSS for NodeSat, 02 May 2026 13:56:24 GMTMon, 13 Apr 2026 11:07:54 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 22:20:16 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 she deopped it so casually as well,it was so hard for me to hear,it’s weird and hella embarrassing

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198622https://browsedns.net/post/198622Thu, 16 Apr 2026 22:20:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 21:45:16 GMT]]>@_Izzy_ yo- what the hell 😭😭 a basically grownass women was saying that to a FRESHMAN?? 💔💔 Saying that to someone in general is weird, but ZAWG 😭 they quite literally JUST got out of middle school😞😞 it's kinda scary how many times I've been told that as well, or at least smth similar 😿
Nah, cuz like- I'm all for making sexual jokes or comments myself, I say em quote often actually- but there's just certain boundaries that people needa understand. Sometimes people need to read the room and understand that some things should go left unsaid 😞

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198617https://browsedns.net/post/198617Thu, 16 Apr 2026 21:45:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:20:36 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 i agree, i dont mind dirty jokes, but my friends and art class are so sexual and i used to be outta pocket too but thats when i was 12-13... these are near grown ass women talking all kinda crazy things and commenting on eachothers bodies like...

"you have the body of a child but the boobs of a grown women" - abt to be a grown ass women talkin to a freshmen btw TvT

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198530https://browsedns.net/post/198530Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:20:36 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:15:03 GMT]]>Anyways, back to the main topic at hand 🥹

I know that my "takes" are pretty surface level, which is because I dunno how in depth I can go about these topics without being censored, but whatevz.

I've been thinking about how this kind of behavior is just reinforcing the fact that as time goes on, more people are being taught to believe that their bodies are sexual objects. I mean, how sad is it that people can't even look at individuals normally without their minds going straight towards wondering "how big they are in bed." :(
Same goes for women, theyre the prime target for objectification, no matter how old or young. It's primarily done by creeps, but I think you get what I mean.
Most people can't even look at the human body without staring at gentials, and being like: "hahaha..DIH!! hahahaha... BOOBZ!? 😂😂😂🤣🤣"
I'm not even a purist, I just believe that there's a time and place for sexual comments and it's wrong to be doing all of this out in public. Which, might I add, shouldn't even be a discussion. It should just be standard humanitarian values💔

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198527https://browsedns.net/post/198527Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:15:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:51:34 GMT]]>@Biblecampvictim gtfu off my post 😭

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198520https://browsedns.net/post/198520Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:51:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:50:25 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS something serious

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198519https://browsedns.net/post/198519Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:50:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:47:02 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS the anime adaptaion isn't terrible, but it cuts important context, the people who made it didn't do a great job with art either so it comes off as a gross yandere anime to some people due to a lot of the art being toned down to the point some viewers forget its a psychological horror. but most people i've seen online regard it as a great show dealing with tabo subjects, very real horror, and abuse cycles. in my opinion, if you watch the anime, and hate it i'd say just read the manga instead. happy sugar life is damn near impossible to find in stores, but you can buy it online. it's 16+ btw
its story with its art will make you uncomfortable. it doesn't rely on gore to envoke fear, it uses its theams and imagery to do so.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198516https://browsedns.net/post/198516Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:47:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:33:56 GMT]]>@_Izzy_ how come? 😭

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198510https://browsedns.net/post/198510Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:33:56 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:33:05 GMT]]>@Yanderemenhera no he wouldn't (trust)

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198509https://browsedns.net/post/198509Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:33:05 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:32:50 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS you should, it's legit in my top 3 films 🥹 it's beautifully shot movie, yet it doesn't romanticize any of it, nor does it make it completely overly edgy, which is a gripe I have about most recent films dedicated to shedding light on trauma's like these.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198508https://browsedns.net/post/198508Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:32:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:32:03 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS you'd def like happy sugar life

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198507https://browsedns.net/post/198507Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:32:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:31:00 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 I’ll
Look into it sometime over the weekend 🙏

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198506https://browsedns.net/post/198506Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:31:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:30:14 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS I honestly should have mentioned the sex-avoidant sides in my previous statement, not every trauma leads them to becoming hypersexual. Often times it's the complete opposite, becoming sex-avoidant.

There's an amazing movie, not sure if you've seen it, but it's titled Mysterious Skin. The film and book both show the aftermath of two boys being molested as children. I won't go too in depth, but it's a great portrayal of two sides of the coin on what happens due to their experiences. Major trigger warning though, some scenes are hard to watch.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198505https://browsedns.net/post/198505Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:30:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:30:23 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS not to be one of THOSE ppl but watching and talking abt tiktok trends has made me actually hate tiktok (well, the way people respond to having access to it)

like theres so much disgusting content like the cp minion trend and all the animal torture TvT
theres probably so much more i dont even know abt
once again, not to be one of those people, but people are genuinely way too desensitized to these things TvT

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198504https://browsedns.net/post/198504Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:30:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:27:35 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 as a girl who's had things done to her by both genders, I can say women are usually excused from these acts. and i've seen fucking nasty things done to men irl and since they were dudes adults didn't gaf about it. but the second something minor happened to me they took me seriously. istg I feel ''privlaged'' looking back on it. it fucked me up more just having to watch that shit more than when it happened to me. I don't hate men or women, I just personally feel like gender doesn't even matter in this, man, women, non-binary? idgaf. every monster is a monster, ever victem is a victim. end of godamn story. men deserve just as much respect as I do and I hate it when people just don't care about men or men don't care about themselves.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198503https://browsedns.net/post/198503Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:27:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:27:08 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS same, it's honestly so sad to see someone fall down the same path as their abuser. Of course there's multiple factors on why someone becomes the perpetrator such as extensive grooming, or someone being mentally ill. However, just because something has reasoning; doesn't justify the actions taken.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198502https://browsedns.net/post/198502Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:27:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:23:07 GMT]]>@_Izzy_ I don’t likw how TikTok makes both trauma responses so performative bc you can be hypersexual without just being a blatant perv and you can be sex avoidant without shaming others for beign interested in the experience,TikTok ruins so much mental health shit and it pmo Sm

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198501https://browsedns.net/post/198501Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:23:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:26:10 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983i know you were lol i just thought it was a good opportunity to mention it bc alot of ppl talk abt how theres toxic feminist but feminism was never about equality or everyone
womanism was mde by black women in the 19th century and is basically what feminism should be as far as i understand it:P

i just wanted a excuse to yap abt it TvT

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198500https://browsedns.net/post/198500Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:26:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:20:47 GMT]]>@_Izzy_ thanks for correcting me :)

I was honestly just following the initial meaning of feminism, yk, the one where the original intent was for women to have the same rights at men. I guess the meaning has changed in recent years, but that's another discussion. Thanks tho!! ^^

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198499https://browsedns.net/post/198499Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:20:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:21:02 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 i think its a truama response, like they either hate all sexual things or become hypersexual to cope
its a sad cycle and another example of how hurt people hurt other people

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198498https://browsedns.net/post/198498Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:21:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:19:33 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 for me I find it so embarrassing and disgusting to see victims repeat the cycle bc it’s sickening to think that somebody could know what that pain feels likw and choose to force that experience on someone else,it’s so sad to think about,wven randomly when the thought pops in my mind if sel a bit bummed Because it just makes the future so much more evil

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198497https://browsedns.net/post/198497Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:19:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:18:45 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 not to derail but womanism is equality for both sexes, feminism is white lady propaganda:)

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198496https://browsedns.net/post/198496Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:18:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:19:24 GMT]]>@Johnny.SS sadly it is something that could happen, but it's strange to see that people don't realize their actions actually have real affects on others 😞 although, I guess it really could just be dwindled down to "people are shitty." 💔

Of course victims of SA can become offenders themselves in the later future, not all of them follow this path. Honestly, the most common case of what happens is the person becomes hypersexual, which doesn't necessarily automatically mean that they become a sex-offender in the future, but I digress.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/198495https://browsedns.net/post/198495Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:19:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It on Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:15:09 GMT]]>@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 its actually a really huge and common issue for victims to become groomers and perpetrators 😭

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