Have you ever had someone that you liked either through talking, seeing their personality, or even just how they look, but when you ask them out their not interested because their in a relationship(I can respect and hope it lasts long), their LGBTQ(as in they don't like the gender you are), or because it not what their looking for (which I feel is not good because its like shopping for furniture, these people are looking for how a piece of furniture looks or even what its made of but don't take in account of how comfy it is and and it allows them to relax and be themselves which is what a relationship is men to be and the only thing it should be) or straight up how you look.

I'm making some of these sound horrible (especially the last 2) but I really don't mean it, I'm just saying that I've asked out people to many times to have this be the 4 responses, then I stopped asking but even that doesn't help because I cant help to like, but then I find out that they already like someone (especially when they ask for advice its like "if theirs a god, he hates me -the thing") or even worse, when they say they like you but then a little while later they say they got back their ex or with someone else and completely push you out.

idk I'm just scared to love, but tell me what you think and have you had something similar?