<![CDATA[what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent?]]>for me, it's misgendering people, I typically use they/them for people I don't know, and if I do know, I use a a pronoun they chose like she for example. now, this isn't something exclusive to trans people btw, but if for whatever reason I say the wrong one or auto correct decides to switch the pronouns (it does actually do this, my auto correct is evil and kinda sexist I think because if I say something like "she went to work" it'll randomly change it to "he") I feel bad because it can make people sad.

my brother used to get called a girl a lot when he was younger since he had long hair and it made him sad sometimes, I think a good thing to remember is that trans/nonbinary people aren't the only one's affected by misgendering, it's something I think makes most people sad/uncomfortable. I know it's bad to dwell on it but I usually do and I feel super bad about it.

I don't intentionally misgender people btw, I feel the need to say that clearly so none thinks i'm doing stuff on purpose.

(if you were wondering about me, i've likely said this before but I do not care personally, you can use whatever basic English pronoun you can think of and just use it for me, i'm not bothered by it but that's just me)

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/22730/what-s-something-you-feel-very-bad-about-doing-on-accedentRSS for NodeTue, 15 Sep 2026 12:29:00 GMTThu, 10 Sep 2026 16:21:16 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 23:49:35 GMT]]>Sometimes I get overly polite to my mom to the point she kept screaming at me..

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252601https://browsedns.net/post/252601Thu, 10 Sep 2026 23:49:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 21:28:03 GMT]]>@Aries Bro I step on my dog all the time but not really on purpose because my dog is always in the way when I'm doing something

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252524https://browsedns.net/post/252524Thu, 10 Sep 2026 21:28:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 20:21:40 GMT]]>forgetting someones name and they GENUINELY know me

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252504https://browsedns.net/post/252504Thu, 10 Sep 2026 20:21:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 20:13:25 GMT]]>I hate accidentally stepping on dogs, or any animal to be fair. It's worse because they don't understand that it's by accident and you can't apologize properly.

I also hate forgetting people's names because when people do it to me I get so pissed

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252499https://browsedns.net/post/252499Thu, 10 Sep 2026 20:13:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:46:26 GMT]]>@Yanderemenhera Damn bro that's crazy

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252383https://browsedns.net/post/252383Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:46:26 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:44:25 GMT]]>I don't do it on purpose, I am literally trying to say the correct word but I end up saying the wrong thing, it usually only happens a few times a day so it's not too bad but it can confuse people and I have accedently called people the wrong name and used the wrong pronouns before

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252381https://browsedns.net/post/252381Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:44:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:36:51 GMT]]>@Yougot1960ed like, imagine looking at someone, you know their name, you are prepared to say their name and as you speak, you just hear "Fido!-" and you stop yourself and you feel embarrassed. this also happens to me sometimes with pronouns and objects, like I might accidentally call a sofa a shower or something like that

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252379https://browsedns.net/post/252379Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:36:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:33:51 GMT]]>@Yanderemenhera same here, I tend to be oblivious and I do it to my friend IRL who is non-binary, I don't realize until way later

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252377https://browsedns.net/post/252377Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:33:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:31:25 GMT]]>@Yanderemenhera But nah bro calling your friend a pet name on accident is crazy

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252374https://browsedns.net/post/252374Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:31:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:29:37 GMT]]>@Yougot1960ed for me irl on the rare occasion it happens it's because I said the wrong thing, like trying to call out your friend's name but you blurt out your dog's name (does anyone else have that issue? or is it just me?), online it's usually due to my auto correct being evil

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252372https://browsedns.net/post/252372Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:29:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to what's something you feel very bad about doing on accedent? on Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:25:03 GMT]]>I got in trouble in 7th Grade for constantly misgendering someone and they thought I was doing it on purpose this was because this was the first time I actually met someone that didn't have He/Him and She/Her pronouns(Don't worry though I apologize and we were cool)

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/252369https://browsedns.net/post/252369Thu, 10 Sep 2026 16:25:03 GMT