<![CDATA[I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh...]]>So, if you don't know, I am Trans-Masc, and use He/They/It.

My best friend, who we will call Lego, keeps calling me She/Her and using my FULL, TEN LETTER FUCKIGN NAME, AND NOT MY THREE LETTER PREFERRED NAME THAT I HAVE BEEN USING EVER SINCE I BECAME GENDERFLUID BACK IN 2021.

BROTHER.

I HAVE KNOWN YOU SINCE THIRD GRADE.

YOU [censored].

But, it's really stressful.

My friend, Clock, who i've known for 3 years and used to call me She/Her for about a year, until he asked me, "Hey, Man, do you use She/Her or He/Him" and when i told him my pronouns, HE ACTUALLY STARTED USING THEM.

i don't even know how to feel...

i've known Lego for so long and it just... it makes me feel like shit.

all my other friends respect my pronouns except him.

what do i do...???

also, side note, Lego disrespects my boundaries daily, Is still friends with a KNOWN rac1st person, and openly disrespects Fictionkins and Yumeshippers.

anyways... Builderman out.....

(Yes, i used shortened versions of roblox admins to name these idiots i know. I didn't wanna risk my friends using this site and them asking "hey, BM, Is this post about me?")

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/22868/i-feel-like-getting-rid-of-my-best-friend...-sigh...RSS for NodeSun, 13 Sep 2026 06:24:56 GMTSat, 12 Sep 2026 23:12:27 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:48:12 GMT]]>@Rusty you use them like any other pronouns.. “it” “its” “itself”

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253659https://browsedns.net/post/253659Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:48:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:48:01 GMT]]>@Rusty
instead of "he ate the sandwich" you say "It ate the sandwich"
just a pronoun swap

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253658https://browsedns.net/post/253658Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:48:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:46:31 GMT]]>@topratedsalesman Yeah but like how does that work I'm genuinely curious

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253655https://browsedns.net/post/253655Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:46:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:13:58 GMT]]>@Rusty bro i use it/its ONLY 💔💔

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253635https://browsedns.net/post/253635Sun, 13 Sep 2026 01:13:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sun, 13 Sep 2026 00:40:34 GMT]]>@CH3SI Wdym you go by "it" how does that work?

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253634https://browsedns.net/post/253634Sun, 13 Sep 2026 00:40:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:47:33 GMT]]>If I were in your place, I'd start by correcting him every time he calls you the wrong thing. See what his reaction is to your corrections and go from there. That will really ultimately give you your answer.
If he corrects himself, maybe it's still worth a shot. However, if he refuses to, he's not really worth your time. If he is going to be told many times that you don't want to be called that and still refuses to respect you, what's the point? There are other people who ARE willing to respect you and call you as you'd like to be called.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253618https://browsedns.net/post/253618Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:47:33 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:42:07 GMT]]>Don’t be friends with them. You have openly talked to them about this and they STILL IGNORE IT, they don’t care, it seems, and it would be better for you to just stop being friends with them, BM.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253615https://browsedns.net/post/253615Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:42:07 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:31:25 GMT]]>@CH3SI If you've literally talked to Lego about it, I'd recommend giving an ultimatum- though it might be too late to give one. Worst case scenario, you dump Lego off and go about your life, they seem very nasty.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253612https://browsedns.net/post/253612Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:31:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:19:03 GMT]]>@CH3SI I've delt with people like this in my life and unfortunetly they had to end the relationship before me and after our friendship breakup it made me realize how toxic they were to me
it is hard to let go of long relationships but when you let them go and go through that phase were out feel regret or sad because they ment a lot to you
you just relise how much of a improvement it will do to your quality of life
I believe that relationships come and go and just because you are ending things with them it does not mean that everything is bad
as much as I want to hate the person I had a falling out with(I just dislike him) I still have to aknolage that he was still a source of happiness and sadness
letting go is hard but its always the first step time will pass and you will mature for this expiriance
also being friends with somebody who does not respect boundaries in unhealthy imo you should end the relationship

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253600https://browsedns.net/post/253600Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:19:03 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to I feel like getting rid of my best friend... sigh... on Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:17:44 GMT]]>Its not worth your time, if lego doesn't respect you what's the point of being friends w them? Especially since they r a bad influence according to ur post, also you shouldnt feel bad that yall have known eachother for awhile, nothing lasts forever.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/253599https://browsedns.net/post/253599Sat, 12 Sep 2026 23:17:44 GMT