So you guys remember that guy I’ve been talking about the past week? Yea? Ok so in band today I was nonverbal due to everything going on at home and he was, idk, mocking me?? He was saying, “oh no! What ever you have is,” and then silently mouthed, “contagious”?? I told him to stop the best I can and he started laughing and saying “it’s just a joke!” I had to explain to him (on a notes app on my iPad) that I’m actually really self conscious about it and that I go nonverbal on really bad days (first time all year). He just kind of… idk… brushed it off? And… he… uhm… tried getting me to call him d//ddy? (Censoring because it makes me really uncomfortable). He was like, “it smells like Up D//ddy in here” and I just looked at him like he was crazy (AS HE KNEW I COULDN'T EVEN RESPOND??) and he repeated himself like three times and when he finally realized I wasn’t gonna respond (even though I LITERALLY COULDN’T) he said, “oh you didn’t fall for it! You were supposed to say, ‘what’s up d//ddy’!” But the weirdest part is that he said, “the funniest people to do it to is another dude,” which is so, so, so weird because he doesn’t even refer to me as a guy/Elliot/he. I’m really scared he’ll do something because this feels like the start of when I was last SAed.. What if he tries something if I tell him no? I don’t think he would but I didn’t think I would be ab//sed by who I was ab//sed by either..
(Also, if you don’t know, read my last few topics for context. And also, he’s NEVER been so s//xual, like, this is new. Maybe he’s just being weird because he thinks it’s funny? I wish I could’ve told him to stop or that it made me uncomfortable, but he chose to make that “joke” at a time where I couldn’t talk?)

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/23084/oh-my-god-tw-sa-mentionRSS for NodeThu, 17 Sep 2026 23:45:20 GMTThu, 17 Sep 2026 22:06:54 GMT60@french_fry_guy
Yeah..

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255801https://browsedns.net/post/255801Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:49:02 GMTBut in all reality I don’t know what to do. I might be looking into it too much but if both my gut and my best friend (whom I dated for almost three years so they know what it’s like to like me, who also absolutely HATES when people are like, “they have a crush on you!”) says he probably likes me idk WHAT to think

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255788https://browsedns.net/post/255788Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:53:11 GMT@Littlebean_877 you’re good dw, it was the laughing emoji that threw me off

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255781https://browsedns.net/post/255781Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:35:07 GMT@french_fry_guy No, I didn't think is was funny. That's why I added my reaction to it. "rolled my eyes..." because I thought it was childish.
My apologies if it came of as I thought it was "funny".

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255779https://browsedns.net/post/255779Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:32:55 GMT@Littlebean_877 I didn’t really think it was funny..

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255777https://browsedns.net/post/255777Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:29:49 GMT@french_fry_guy I feel for the up d/ddy.
I mouthed oh my God, rolled my eyes and kept reading

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255776https://browsedns.net/post/255776Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:26:39 GMTif he's a real friend, you should probably tell him you're uncomfortable next time. see if he listens, y'know?

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255775https://browsedns.net/post/255775Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:23:39 GMT@st4tic it’s whatever, it’s sad to say but this is not nearly the worst person I’ve had to deal with (not even close)
(And also, he’s one of my really good friends. Maybe he just sees me as “one of the bros”? I know his friends are kinda weird but I didn’t think he was)

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255772https://browsedns.net/post/255772Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:20:09 GMT@french_fry_guy if it gets real bad you should report him to an authority. i wish you luck and i'm genuinely sorry

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255771https://browsedns.net/post/255771Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:17:02 GMT@st4tic every hour but band and history. I sit directly next to him during band and he sits a table over during history

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255770https://browsedns.net/post/255770Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:15:54 GMTyou have no fault for being nonverbal, and i'd say it's better to be safe than sorry. you should probably tell someone you trust. but is there any way you think you can avoid him...?

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255769https://browsedns.net/post/255769Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:15:12 GMT@st4tic I don’t know, because maybe I’m just blowing this out of proportion?? Sometimes he makes kinda weird jokes but he’s been acting so, so, so weird lately. And I’m scared that if I tell an adult they’ll tell my parents, who will make it a huge deal when it might be my fault for not communicating (even though I was nonverbal but still)

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255768https://browsedns.net/post/255768Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:13:11 GMT@french_fry_guy okay. that's. disgusting???? is there any trusted adult you could tell this to, mayhaps?

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255767https://browsedns.net/post/255767Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:10:45 GMT@Graveyard_artz this is the second thing I didn’t want to say out loud btw

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/255765https://browsedns.net/post/255765Thu, 17 Sep 2026 22:08:19 GMT