<![CDATA[Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make?]]>title, like randomly getting mad at something that didn't matter or accidentally saying something completely unhinged. Like i'd feel a lot better if I could reverse time and just literally not say that

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/23311/anyone-else-regret-and-completely-hyperfocus-on-any-social-mistake-they-makeRSS for NodeTue, 13 Oct 2026 02:06:52 GMTTue, 22 Sep 2026 15:27:56 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:47:24 GMT]]>@SweetLikeTarmac i actually kind of am being raised like that, but I only do that with my mom because she forces me to, like physically. I'm never speaking to her again after 18.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258077https://browsedns.net/post/258077Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:47:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:44:51 GMT]]>@UnpaidIntern nah, I am a people pleaser. you'd be too, if you were raised the way I was/am ✌🫡

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258076https://browsedns.net/post/258076Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:44:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:43:15 GMT]]>@SweetLikeTarmac i'm trying to think of a word for "people-pleaser" that doesn't have a negative connotation (i hope I used the word connotation right) to describe like when someone just says what the other person wants to hear instead of what they actually want to say. I notice it all the time when interacting with some users on this website, but I can't say when they're doing it without it sounding like I just called them a slur.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258074https://browsedns.net/post/258074Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:43:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:40:21 GMT]]>@st4tic Yes I had that same thing go on with me

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258070https://browsedns.net/post/258070Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:40:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:32:51 GMT]]>all the time <//3 for example i get actually mad at getting called a LOT of shit even as a joke, or just not getting results i expected. it's genuinely exhausting.

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]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258063https://browsedns.net/post/258063Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:32:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:32:13 GMT]]>@SweetLikeTarmac yeah like that, but with the difference of not really aiming for what the other person wants to hear and more like the best thing to say in that moment

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258061https://browsedns.net/post/258061Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:32:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:31:21 GMT]]>@UnpaidIntern with my humor, if someone said that around me i'd just think it's really funny

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258059https://browsedns.net/post/258059Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:31:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:31:00 GMT]]>one time I randomly said "I love drinking yellow liquid" as a joke while drinking orange juice (but like the ones that look yellow) and I still regret it to this day (i think that was like a week ago).

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258058https://browsedns.net/post/258058Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:31:00 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make? on Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:30:17 GMT]]>@UnpaidIntern I do in a way keep a score sheet in my head and try to say what the other person wants to hear, and if they react well I celebrate, but if they don't I wish I would have never spoke. its mentally exhausting and no conversation feels genuine

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/258057https://browsedns.net/post/258057Tue, 22 Sep 2026 15:30:17 GMT