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Suicidal ideation/plans?

my best friend for about two years now (I'll call him K) , has been struggling horribly since way before i met him. last year, he told me he was planning on ending his life. i panicked- we had discussed his sh before that- but never [censored]. I told the counselor. he was sent to a mental hospital by his parents. again. It didn't help him at all however. every hospital in our area is HORRIBLE. i wish i would have known that sooner... The beginning of this year started rough friendship-wise... but he had me promise i wouldn't tell anyone again. i saw how horribly it affected him last time ... and hesitantly agreed.

Recently however- he's been talking to me about it again. i dont know what to do anymore. i cant lose him. i've lost too many people in my life- and ig that makes me selfish but... hes one of the only friends i have left.

please. i dont know what to do.

]]>https://browsedns.net/topic/24538/i-actually-really-need-help-here.RSS for NodeFri, 30 Oct 2026 18:08:42 GMTTue, 20 Oct 2026 04:50:51 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to i actually really need help here. on Tue, 20 Oct 2026 05:03:48 GMT]]>it sucks because both our parents are shitty and hate us hanging around each other- like. to the point we cant contact each other AT ALL outside of school. he's mentioned he wishes we could text- so he would have some kind of distraction- but theres genuinely no way it could happen.. no matter how much i wish it would. as for everything else- i'm following it. i've been doing research - studying statistics- all of that- and putting it to use... its just that... nothing seems to be working.

]]>https://browsedns.net/post/269593https://browsedns.net/post/269593Tue, 20 Oct 2026 05:03:48 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to i actually really need help here. on Tue, 20 Oct 2026 04:58:48 GMT]]>psych wards are shitty insurance scams and are just hubs for the absolute worst abuses of children imaginable, the only thing they do for "treatment" is hand out SSRI's like candy so I'm not surprised they did not help him. best thing you can do is just be there for him, for some people just living for someone else can help them get through it, hearing someone would really miss if you were gone hurts a lot to hear. try to be there for him as much as you can and try not to make him feel like a burden and if there's a reason why he feels that way (I.e. shitty home life) try to help him get through that, like plain for the future or offer to have stay the night so he isn't in the house that makes him feel that way.

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