It genuinely makes my skin crawl when my parents or people online make mean comments about what people wear. I want to get lip piercings and dress alt, scenecore, or grunge, but my mom only lets me go so far into the style because, for example, she thinks it's just me looking for attention or trying to "be different". I just love the style tho!! Guhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... anyway yeah, judgy people suck