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@french_fry_guy nah, it's common lol. The sting doesn't last long enough with the rubber bands, I feel like it's only good if you SH once in a blue moon. It's nothing to be ashamed of, I would just advise to slowly and slowly stop SHing if it's difficult for you to stop immediately. It's just like quitting any other addiction, distract yourself or at least tone it down day by day until you don't feel the need to do it anymore 🐌

I've actually been sober for a few months I believe (I haven't been keeping track) PX

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A method that sometimes works is placing multiple pieces of duck tape on the places where you harm and repeatedly rip off the tape until you're satisfied. It works for the pain if you usually don't cut super, duper deep normally when SHing. It helps to take at least a few(5-10) deep breaths before ripping off each piece of tape as well. Not sure what to do if you feel like you need to see blood though,,, (not saying you do, but often times people don't feel like the SH is 'good' enough till they bleed).

Rubber bands don't work well for me because it doesn't hurt enough, but with the duck tape, it can help you release the adrenaline and calm down when you're in the moment.

Anyways, hope this helps and I hope your mental state gets better 🐌♥️

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I mean, if they did some horrendous shit then I would hate them. For example: if they cheated on me, or they're just a general piece of shit. Otherwise, if we ended on good and mutual terms, I don't see the reason why some people hate the exes, but there's always a reason as to why people break up

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@KiwiFarmsArkavel youre supposed to be a moderator, how don't you know 😭

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@_Izzy_ WAIT, WAIT- IM SO SORRY, THIS IS ON MY BAD. I MISREAD WHAY YOH SAID,,, GULP,, LEMME DELETE THE POST 😭😭 I APOLOGIZE

Actually, everything I said could be applied to what you believe when it comes to trans individuals, nonetheless. I'm too lazy to rephrase what I said

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@ev.sebastian can I join 🥹

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@french_fry_guy yeah, I also don't really see much mtf oddly enough. Strange,,, seems like a hint of underlying misogyny, but I needa look more into it. And even then, I feel like it's always the conventionally attractive twink representation for ftm as well 😭 I'm happy there's representation in general, but it could at least be a bit diverse

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@spwnchild yes, but that isn't an issue

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@french_fry_guy yeah, lmao. On edge of the forum, you can't upvote posts, sadly

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