I'm such a hypocrite man
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So uh, I made a post talking about how my friend now hates me but i'm complaining while doing something 10x worse. I've only really been friends with this girl for a couple of months, we started hanging out 1 on 1 at breaks and stuff. I liked her at that point, but then I started noticing little things that would just piss me off. For example, hitting my bag all the time, making unnecessary sexual jokes and our interests just don't align. Once I offered to do her makeup for her and instead of just saying no she made up that she's allergic to something in makeup so I asked what it was and she just said 'uhhh, I don't know. It begins with H' mind you, she only wears mascara but it's NOT an allergy friendly one. I don't like her anymore, but I feel awful saying it because she's always buying me food and stuff. I want to tell her the truth, but I feel really bad actually admitting all of this to her.
You're not reading this instead of my post, right?
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So uh, I made a post talking about how my friend now hates me but i'm complaining while doing something 10x worse. I've only really been friends with this girl for a couple of months, we started hanging out 1 on 1 at breaks and stuff. I liked her at that point, but then I started noticing little things that would just piss me off. For example, hitting my bag all the time, making unnecessary sexual jokes and our interests just don't align. Once I offered to do her makeup for her and instead of just saying no she made up that she's allergic to something in makeup so I asked what it was and she just said 'uhhh, I don't know. It begins with H' mind you, she only wears mascara but it's NOT an allergy friendly one. I don't like her anymore, but I feel awful saying it because she's always buying me food and stuff. I want to tell her the truth, but I feel really bad actually admitting all of this to her.
@Aries Your the bad person if you don't tell her, you are reasonable if you DO tell her.
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@Aries Your the bad person if you don't tell her, you are reasonable if you DO tell her.
Yeah, but like surely there's a better way. One of her old friends fell out with her and every little thing that girl did afterwards she'd report and cry about how she doesn't understand what she did wrong
You're not reading this instead of my post, right?
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Yeah, but like surely there's a better way. One of her old friends fell out with her and every little thing that girl did afterwards she'd report and cry about how she doesn't understand what she did wrong
Is there really another GOOD way? I mean just be honest with her, If you make excuses or try to find another way around it I feel like that's not good.
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Is there really another GOOD way? I mean just be honest with her, If you make excuses or try to find another way around it I feel like that's not good.
What if I just like- started ignoring her? :sob:
I just really want her to take a hint manYou're not reading this instead of my post, right?
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What if I just like- started ignoring her? :sob:
I just really want her to take a hint manYou could do that, I just feel like the better thing morally to do is confront her in person and be honest.
You know first hand how much it already hurts to lose a friend, your old friend already did that. Do you remember how that felt?
Bad, right? So why would you be just as bad and do it to the next person?
