GENUINE QUESTION !!!!! ( for everyone of bdns )

[ellaestjinkoo]

do you care about what people think you look like more or how people see you act and how you treat your peers??

:pp js asking

[boomboxXD]

@ellaestjinkoo well.. I care about what my friends think of me but that's more or less like if I do something bad I want them to tell me ig
I don't care uch of what others think of me as long as I am happy
if you live your life always thinking about others you rill not think "will I like this" and it will be more like "what will they think of me if I like this"
I think there needs to be a healthy balance of not caring and caring

[ellaestjinkoo]

@boomboxXD i have the same feelings!! but i normally care what teachers and other adults think abt me. bc i respect them i want them to think im a good person :pp

[boomboxXD]

@ellaestjinkoo that's a pretty good mindset!

[ellaestjinkoo]

@boomboxXD yes. i was bullied bc of my looks a lot as a kid, so now idc,

[boomboxXD]

@ellaestjinkoo aw:((
people are so mean bro istg

[Abaddon64]

I dont care about how people think about me

[ellaestjinkoo]

@boomboxXD yesss they r. but idk now that im in highschool (american) high schoolers dont really care anymore. my aunt hated high school but i like high school a lot better than middle school

[ellaestjinkoo]

@Abaddon64 i feel that way too!! but deep down ik that some part of me cares T-T

[Abaddon64]

@ellaestjinkoo that's called social anxiety