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Kinda now realising my homelife was bad

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    Trigger warning @bu5e, emotional and physical, drugs, gambling and neglect

    When i lived at home i didn't know i was being abused. But knowing what i do now, my life was bad. I'm worried about my siblings now. They're still at home with my abusive parents. i wanna tell my social worker my worries but that'll ruin my family. But i wanna do it still. For their saftey. Even if my family hates me for it.

    My dad would physically and emotionally abuse me. He once told me to kms. He would hurt me when he was angry at me. I'm terrified it'll happen to my siblings too.

    My mother would mainly be emotionally abusive. I don't think she was conscious of it though. Shes schizophrenic and has multiple personalities. She also had such a bad gambling addiction we had no money for days. She'd also ignore the abuse from dad.

    Mum and my dad also used drugs religously, daily. I'd be a hypocrite if i criticized them for it but they're parents. They should have looked out for me and my siblings.

    My older sibling we'll call E would also do nothing. They would let it happen. I needed someone to help. I wanted someone to save me. But E didn't do that.

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      I think you should let your social worker know even though, yes it will ruin the family, but tbh its already ruined and the only way I can think of it getting better or at least your siblings not having to go through the same thing you went through is by telling someone. If it doesn't work at least you can say you tried unlike E.

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        I think you should let your social worker know even though, yes it will ruin the family, but tbh its already ruined and the only way I can think of it getting better or at least your siblings not having to go through the same thing you went through is by telling someone. If it doesn't work at least you can say you tried unlike E.

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        @Cybertrash0vtxxy I think i will. I don't want them to turn out like me.

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          @Cybertrash0vtxxy I think i will. I don't want them to turn out like me.

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          @Łuna es okii jst think no pessimist 🐸

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            Trigger warning @bu5e, emotional and physical, drugs, gambling and neglect

            When i lived at home i didn't know i was being abused. But knowing what i do now, my life was bad. I'm worried about my siblings now. They're still at home with my abusive parents. i wanna tell my social worker my worries but that'll ruin my family. But i wanna do it still. For their saftey. Even if my family hates me for it.

            My dad would physically and emotionally abuse me. He once told me to kms. He would hurt me when he was angry at me. I'm terrified it'll happen to my siblings too.

            My mother would mainly be emotionally abusive. I don't think she was conscious of it though. Shes schizophrenic and has multiple personalities. She also had such a bad gambling addiction we had no money for days. She'd also ignore the abuse from dad.

            Mum and my dad also used drugs religously, daily. I'd be a hypocrite if i criticized them for it but they're parents. They should have looked out for me and my siblings.

            My older sibling we'll call E would also do nothing. They would let it happen. I needed someone to help. I wanted someone to save me. But E didn't do that.

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            @Łuna your siblings Can't not go through that of what you experience with the abusive parents when you were living at home with them if though may or not may ruined the family honestly you need let the social worker know what's going on because stuff like that Can't keep going on all the time stuff like that going to cause physical and emotional damage and may take awhile to get over it they Can't not live in the pain of abusive parents

            if it ain't xo then it gotta go

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              @Łuna your siblings Can't not go through that of what you experience with the abusive parents when you were living at home with them if though may or not may ruined the family honestly you need let the social worker know what's going on because stuff like that Can't keep going on all the time stuff like that going to cause physical and emotional damage and may take awhile to get over it they Can't not live in the pain of abusive parents

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              @taytayy I agree. I'm telling her hopefully today

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                Trigger warning @bu5e, emotional and physical, drugs, gambling and neglect

                When i lived at home i didn't know i was being abused. But knowing what i do now, my life was bad. I'm worried about my siblings now. They're still at home with my abusive parents. i wanna tell my social worker my worries but that'll ruin my family. But i wanna do it still. For their saftey. Even if my family hates me for it.

                My dad would physically and emotionally abuse me. He once told me to kms. He would hurt me when he was angry at me. I'm terrified it'll happen to my siblings too.

                My mother would mainly be emotionally abusive. I don't think she was conscious of it though. Shes schizophrenic and has multiple personalities. She also had such a bad gambling addiction we had no money for days. She'd also ignore the abuse from dad.

                Mum and my dad also used drugs religously, daily. I'd be a hypocrite if i criticized them for it but they're parents. They should have looked out for me and my siblings.

                My older sibling we'll call E would also do nothing. They would let it happen. I needed someone to help. I wanted someone to save me. But E didn't do that.

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                @Łuna Your "mom" is responsible for all this carnage as well. She's not innocent. And neither is your "oldest sibling". They both played a part in worsening the abuse that poor excuse for a dad imposed upon you. These 3 evil creatures have no right to live after everything they've done to you. Which is why the least you can do is report to the social worker about those vile child abusers and that "sibling" who did nothing about your suffering to help your true siblings get the hell away from those monsters, in the meantime. They must be spared from the very evil that has ruined you. And once more, don't ever blame yourself for any of this. None of this is your fault, and someday soon, you and your true siblings will be forever safe from this evil.

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