@_beetle. thank you so much for this advice but my mom will never let me take my tail (not because she is unsupportive but because It took so much time to make) out and my dad still thinks it's a cosplay and he says that cosplays ar not to be worn everywhere... for the bag accessory excuse, It wont work because I'm not the guy that gets tons of these and It is quite big. also my class Is super judgemental... thank you so much anyways! :3