poly questions and help.

[A Former User]

hi, im in a poly and i understand the basics bec i been in one for a few months.. but there are some questions i habe, the most important is that when i went in it was all ok, but some people just randomly dm me and say "heyyy i love you <3" but they are ppl i never met bfore..? so what is this sorcery??? i dunno these ppl and just love ppl i actually know and chose to date. help??

[Nonbinary_wolf]

@sighniu Just ignore them.

[A Former User]

@Nonbinary_wolf thank you :)

[Yougot1960ed]

@sighniu Your on what?

[A Former User]

@Yougot1960ed huh?

[Yougot1960ed]

@sighniu Whats Poly?

[Nonbinary_wolf]

@Yougot1960ed Poly means polyamorous. It basically means you can love multiple people at once. Often people who are in throuples are poly.

[A Former User]

yea, i have 4 people in a poly, they love me and i love them, its the same as a normal relationship basically :)

[Nonbinary_wolf]

@sighniu How do I keep finding people on here who have 3 or 4 lovers and I can't even get 1? :sob: :sob: :sob: :sob: :sob:

[A Former User]

@Nonbinary_wolf well, i confessed i liked 1- they asked if i wanted to be with 1 other.. atm i said no but changed my mind- then got with them, then 2 came to me who were rly nice and liked me- i love them all :)

[redddestsun]

tbh i love these kinda ppl. some of said lovers may be joking. from experience i suggest looking into each person to figure it out if ya dunno. not for the ones you were originally with ofc, you should already know their true intentions
hope ths helps!!

[A Former User]

@redddestsun ty :)

[redddestsun]

@sighniu Any time. But, uh, one question, how do I make one of these topic things? I'm still getting used to this place

[Yougot1960ed]

@Nonbinary_wolf Oh now i know