little space things ! (things you'll need 2 understand)
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@buoPAWZ confusion.
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@buoPAWZ confusion.
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@buoPAWZ no ur ok i js figured out wht u meantnt
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Just an offer, woul you like it if i gave you a rundown of wht happened during an ls after it happens?
@LunaNova please please !!
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thx @melzie i didnt know at first thats y i acted like a fool in the gc im sorry to everyone in that gc
@jojo ofc <3 !!
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Post is here :3
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it is EXTREMELY hard 2 explain little spacing righ b4 u little space, soo!! i want 2 get it out of the way so not everyone is confused !! >w<
BASIC QUESTIONS:
What is little space?
How do you get out of it?
What is a Caretaker?
I will be going over these first, THEN get into the more detailed information! :))
What is little space?
Ive little spaced for like 2-3 years and still have a hard time explaining this(fml</3) but, little space is a "condition" some people go through, it helps them bring out theyre innerchild , the childhood they didn't have kinda ? (wether it be, they play with toys, have stuffed animals, eat foods frm when they were younger, the way they dress, making sure they stay healthy, etc. !!)
How do you get out of little space?
Personally, im not sure, but what helps for other people is that they try to focus on being more "serious" , like try to focus on your surroundings and remember where you are? I kinda just let myself little space and wait until im okay enough to reel myself back in (i personally dont think you should force yourself out of little space unless you genuinely need to, if your like in a place where u actually need 2 focus n shit. hope this helps!!<33)
What is a caretaker?
A caretaker is someone who watches over the little while theyre little spacing (think of babysitting? lol, its to make sure the littles feel safe wherever theyre at, and to make sure they dont get in2 trouble.). A caretaker usually is the littles partner/someone they trust. Caretaker's are usually given nicknames by theyre littles the nicknames you find on google arent always going to be used depending on what the littles comfortable with, my little(what i call myself in little space, as do alot of other littles. i had a friend who called her little space-self "bunny".) if infront of romantic partner, will not use parental terms, (he uses 'baby' when referring to them, personally.) he thinks its weird and makes him uncomfortable. However, with friends/peoole i trust, he calls them by relative terms (Mama, pops, auntie, uncle, etc.)
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!! DETAILED INFORMATION ;; newer questions. !!
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Are all littles / people who little space NSFW?
It absolutely sickens me that this is even a question.. But, no, absolutely not. Sadly, you do have to be careful, some people who little space are.
Information you need to know / understand
Not all littles do it as a coping mech! some do it for fun, figure out which one your littles do it for to better understand them. Little space isnt always going to be your littles clinging onto you, wanting your attention, being giddy and happy; sometimes they will cry, get anxiety attacks / panic attacks, sometimes you just need to comfort them/figure out what they need, it happens. Your allowed to set boundaries with your littles, if you need some time from them, have someone you know that also caretakes them to watch over them. Your always allowed to ask them questions AS LONG as they are not in LS because if they are, they wont understand. Littles can vary ages, its not always the same age they little space to.
if you have any other questions please ask !! thats all for now, i hope this information helps !! byee<33
@corpzeini' i'm 17 and i act like im 11 bc of the fact i can
