Feeling gloomy.
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@flutterfluff Thank you. It's just subliminal to me.
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I mean- I personally don't understand the thought process of losing the feeling of attachment and staying together- I wouldn't consider the PFP stuff too bad, I mean, it's a PFP, c'mon. But at the same time I feel like if you're dating more for the relationship than the partner, then a relationship shouldn't exist, although I could be misunderstanding the situation due to the tone of the post in general being negative and discussing your partner.
Evah! >:3
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I mean- I personally don't understand the thought process of losing the feeling of attachment and staying together- I wouldn't consider the PFP stuff too bad, I mean, it's a PFP, c'mon. But at the same time I feel like if you're dating more for the relationship than the partner, then a relationship shouldn't exist, although I could be misunderstanding the situation due to the tone of the post in general being negative and discussing your partner.
@NightmareWolfie I date him for him. I study his activities (not to a personal level but I can make interpretations). He felt off today, and I don't know. I lashed out. I don't know what to say to him. He's probably still ignoring me.
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@NightmareWolfie I date him for him. I study his activities (not to a personal level but I can make interpretations). He felt off today, and I don't know. I lashed out. I don't know what to say to him. He's probably still ignoring me.
@soleil Well in the end a person is a person- Far too complex for you or anyone else to have down completely, and if he didn't act his usual then my first guess would be you picked a bad time- I'd suggest you work on keeping composure during times like this as lashing out when he may need space will only lead to arguments or perhaps more
Evah! >:3
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@soleil Well in the end a person is a person- Far too complex for you or anyone else to have down completely, and if he didn't act his usual then my first guess would be you picked a bad time- I'd suggest you work on keeping composure during times like this as lashing out when he may need space will only lead to arguments or perhaps more
@NightmareWolfie Thank you Wolfie if I may call. I told him that we can settle in DMs if it helps.
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@NightmareWolfie Thank you Wolfie if I may call. I told him that we can settle in DMs if it helps.
@soleil Good idea, now just be patient ;3 Also yeah, I'm Wolfie
Evah! >:3
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@soleil Good idea, now just be patient ;3 Also yeah, I'm Wolfie
@NightmareWolfie Thank you, again, Wolfie.
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personally I think its about attachment styles sort of or how you perceive things and feel from inside I struggle with relationships due to fact sometimes I split over a small thing and it makes me view them negatively so I kinda related to this but communicating is always good because no one can read your mind
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personally I think its about attachment styles sort of or how you perceive things and feel from inside I struggle with relationships due to fact sometimes I split over a small thing and it makes me view them negatively so I kinda related to this but communicating is always good because no one can read your mind
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@flutterfluff True. I have complex attachment issues from a few toxic relationships.
@soleil as anyone should toxic relationships can make you not trust people as easily specially when being triggered by thing that reminds you of a time when you were inside of that relationship I'm also very keen on like being able to tell when a person is off because I get very emotionally aware to when I'm close with or even if I can't understand the tone of a person I don't know it either makes me wanna lash out or get upset
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@soleil as anyone should toxic relationships can make you not trust people as easily specially when being triggered by thing that reminds you of a time when you were inside of that relationship I'm also very keen on like being able to tell when a person is off because I get very emotionally aware to when I'm close with or even if I can't understand the tone of a person I don't know it either makes me wanna lash out or get upset
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@soleil its probably because we both are neurodivergent with a bit of similarity in experiences
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@soleil its probably because we both are neurodivergent with a bit of similarity in experiences
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@soleil I don't know why but I'm sort of good at reading people or situations not always though but usually I'm close but reading neurotypical people is much more difficult for me as I just feel really different from most people I'm a bit better at understanding people who are sort of like me in a way
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@soleil I don't know why but I'm sort of good at reading people or situations not always though but usually I'm close but reading neurotypical people is much more difficult for me as I just feel really different from most people I'm a bit better at understanding people who are sort of like me in a way
@flutterfluff I can read, but I can't speak my mind.
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I always try to pay attention to tone its way harder in text and somtimes just the way a text sounds in my head can entirely misinterpret something
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@soleil this is so real
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or sometimes I just act on emotions rather than logical thinking
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My mind is always so quick to act on emotions rather then logical thinking
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@flutterfluff That is true for me.
