a rant post btw, not about anyone here ofc, you guys are sigmas
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have you ever watched someone do something terrible and someone one else justifys it by saying something about how hard there life is/was or they have some sort of diagnoses that is popular at the time (I.e. ADHD) like, lets say at school someone hurts you physically and the teacher just goes ''aw, it's not there fault. they have bipolar and can't control there emotions so why don't you go appoligize for your abilisom instead.'' i've seen the abilisom card used for like chris-chan for example and look, as an autistic person who I think the term is ''high functoining'' (i'm not someone who's really interested in psycholigoy so idk if that terminoligy is still used) I really want other autistic people to be held accountable and autism to not be used as an excuse or crutch for terrible behavior bc it makes us look bad, and all I want is to be treated like everyone else and that includes being reprimanded if I do something wrong. and like, i'd assume most horrible people have trauma and mental illnesses, it does not make it ok though. if I yelled at someone in DMs about how I hate there pfp and then say "oh, I got BPD, I just lash out sometimes owo" it doesn't excuse what I did, and I do have BPD and I will be deadass, no, it doesn't even work like that (at least for me) and I hate how therapy-speak is being used too. istg, everyone and their brother sees a therapist and doesn't become self aware to anything they are doing. i've seen people use random self-daignosed disorders to justify being an [censored] and it's like, omfg, aren't you paying someone 200$ a half and hour appointment to listen to your woes and tell you what you can do better? =-= God, I hate those people.
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i'll quote a song I very much enjoy for how I feel about these people ''boo [censored] who you're not the only one who's life is a peice of shit, and yet; somehow we all seem to deal with it."
