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accidentally using they/them despite knowing that the person's pronouns are not they/them

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    title, sometimes in the middle of a sentence I end up using someone's actual pronouns (that are not they/them) but then I subconsciously use they/them for literally every other time I refer to them lol. It ends up creating really funny sentences for no reason because I just end up using they/them as the default like no matter what

    does anyone else accidentally do this

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      for me it's the other way around which is worse, so don't beat yourself over it

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        for me it's the other way around which is worse, so don't beat yourself over it

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        @andythespeedru HIS PRONOUNS ARE THEY/THEM
        /j

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          @andythespeedru HIS PRONOUNS ARE THEY/THEM
          /j

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          @UnpaidIntern ?

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            title, sometimes in the middle of a sentence I end up using someone's actual pronouns (that are not they/them) but then I subconsciously use they/them for literally every other time I refer to them lol. It ends up creating really funny sentences for no reason because I just end up using they/them as the default like no matter what

            does anyone else accidentally do this

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            @UnpaidIntern I mean honestly, you can use singular they's if you don't know their pronouns for certain

            Hey, feel free to read my blog.
            Minor || It/Name || EN/ZH/FR 🆗
            please don't use you/yours

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            • UnpaidInternundefined UnpaidIntern

              title, sometimes in the middle of a sentence I end up using someone's actual pronouns (that are not they/them) but then I subconsciously use they/them for literally every other time I refer to them lol. It ends up creating really funny sentences for no reason because I just end up using they/them as the default like no matter what

              does anyone else accidentally do this

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              @UnpaidIntern I thought I was the only one 💔

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                title, sometimes in the middle of a sentence I end up using someone's actual pronouns (that are not they/them) but then I subconsciously use they/them for literally every other time I refer to them lol. It ends up creating really funny sentences for no reason because I just end up using they/them as the default like no matter what

                does anyone else accidentally do this

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                @UnpaidIntern I don't bother to check pronouns, I just use they/them for people I don't know the pronouns of to avoid any drama

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