what should i do

piercetheviolet

if i were you, drop her ass AND give her a taste of her own medicine. She doesn't deserve your friendship anyway, if shes just gonna treat it like shit. Thats not fair to you, or ANYONE she'd do this too. Nobody should have to experience that. Your perfect the way you are, and nobody should convince you otherwise. Own your flaws, accept them, learn to live with them. You dont need to change for someone else's approval. I understand we haven't known eachother ENOUGH to say we're friends, but i'd call you a friend, and bitches who fuck with my friends figure it the fuck out that i dont fucking play like that. Your friends are SUPPOSED to support you unconditionally, understand what your going through, and help you feel more comfortable n safe with them. She clearly isnt doing that for you. You shouldn't surround yourself in those kinds of environments.

les

@GhostfaceKisser thanks. i was planning on saying this all to her and honestly its kinda crazy how shed believe her man (which btw broke up with her last year bc some immature guys in our class told him to and he did it, and everyone started to cheer and i was there comforting her but she doesnt do the same for me) over me bc ive known her for over 6+ years and only known her "bf" for ONE!!!

les

@taytayy thank u. the sad part is most of my childhood friends were treating me this way for ages and i was to blind to see it... manipulation, bullying, badmouthing, placing me in drama i did not belong in and putting me in uncomfortable situations, i didnt realize until it was too late.

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@nelly GIRLIE!!!! THATS A FAKE ASS HOEE!!!!! i say you should ditch her ass like immediately. she dont deserve u hun!!! also going thru ur snaps??? sure it was on her phone but like. you dont do that. i was also protective of my phone (lols bc of traumaaa) and like. yeah. but. still bro thats UNCALLED FORRRRRRR thats private convosss
i think you should shove her into a ditch figuratively and literally. :333

les

@sam-the-man thanks im just like figuring out how to talk to her abt this

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@nelly i gotchu
the key to that is to be respectful about it even tho the other person is def not gonna be respectful back. that way if shit goes wrong, like hella wrong, you never fucked up and hey it might backfire on her if ppl are around
like just be "hey, i dont think we should be friends anymore, lately you've been (list her grievances with evidence) and that isn't okay so i don't think we should be friends anymore." or something like that
try to not get mad at her bc then it ends up ending ugly and you dont feel as satisfied yk
hope this helps

fatui

& if you get to stop being her friend but she keeps trying to bother you or spread rumors, ignore her!! schools almost never do much about situations like this, so try to be nice to all the people she knows so they're more likely to believe you in the case she spreads rumors

les

@sam-the-man thats exactly how i planned to do it!! my concern is mostly how she will react after and shes still frinds with my toxic ex bff so ik shes going straight to her.

Alastor

@nelly she is a fcking fake fr shes prob using u I would ditch her fr, she dosent deserve u, id tell this situation to somebody u trust and maybe ask for help, like what to say but ye she is fake and I feel so bad for u :c dont let her hurt u or spread rumors

les

@fatui shes not liked very much by anyone except for like two people so i think i should be okay. im usually nice to everyone and she tends to do very outlandish things without thinking abt others feelings, even talking to her abt it didntdo anything. her ex (whos a player tryna date every girl at school) showed her spicy pics to one of his friends who did not like her bc that was "his homie" and that dude leaked it during a field trip bc we were listening to music and we were accidentally singing a little loud and this guy across from us tod us to shut up. i apologized bc i have a severe problem with my voice probably bc of my poor hearing. she told him to shut up and mind his own business and that othr guy i mentioned earlier was right there so he airdropped the phto to some people who then saved it. and yk they BARELY knew each othr (her and her ex) but she gets upset when i talk abt how cute a guy is without knowing them like that. girly cannot keep a man... he tried cheating on her with me and i ss eveeything and showed hr. she believd me but still continued dating him and got mad that i "wasnt doing anything" when i LITERALLY was. he just wouldnt,stop. it is not my fault she chose to stay with someone like that

les

@AveryTheBlueFox she has nothing to useme for shes just way too nice to,everyone but the complete opposite behind their back

Alastor

@nelly I have a friend at my school who does that to me and it sucks

les

@AveryTheBlueFox aw im sorry :( i hope u build up the courage to drop him soon

Alastor

@nelly its a girl but what she does is she always acts nice around her friends but shes always mean to me like its a diff situation but like all the time she will say rude things to me or push me and one time she pushed me so hard, I started bleeding and she always talks about me behind my bk. She is such a fake and evertime near my mom she acts all "nice" and my mom believes shes nice but inside shes a b*tch and all my other friends agree she is a jerk and always says mean and rude things to me

les

@AveryTheBlueFox i meant,to say them i didnt eve realize i said him

les

and im so sory abt tha.

Alastor

@nelly its ok LOL