uh hey, dont exactly know if i want to post this. but a word of advice would be nice

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i'm not really non-binary so idk anything about what your talking about maybe (like what mari said) ask one of the non-binary users of the site

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enby person here!
yes. this is a valid emotion and i feel the same way, being gendered makes me feel disgusted and gross. you dont need to behave masculine or feminine to identify as a specific gender (OBVIOUSLY!!) and i honestly feel feminine some days and masculine others. i would suggest trying out they/them pronouns and see how they fit you

Weeblikeartist

yeah i just feel like people wouldnt respect it much. i hate people at my school. they act like there 12. bunch of homophobes and transphobes. i supose the term for what im feeling is dysphorphia? anyways. i dont know. anyways. suppose i could try it. makes me happy when someone doesnt gender me. feels stupid. well anyways ill keep you updated if you care :)

Almond

@weeblikeartist here for you, stay safe!

Ria

@weeblikeartist i think the t3rm u r refering ti here is gende4 dysmorphia, i dont know how i kno thi, but it just sounds right

Ria

OMG I CNPOST AGAIN

Weeblikeartist

@Ria yes it is (i think) belive so. goinb bzck to school tomorow. just had a 2 weel long break. imma see how it goes. i dont know how to tell my teachers about it. they woundnt respect it.yk teachers love to go on power trips. tho i know a few who would. so thats always nice. welp wish me luck

PabIo

Being call a young lady is weird I feel like that person is a creap

Raven

Not at all @juvon

I'm not meaning to offend anyone here but that is something adults around 40 tend to call children/teens, i'm sure they didn't mean to misgender you or whatever you felt like what was going on. It is just something that they have developed through their time of being alive (for example: their fashion may not be the same as yours.). I think they're just trying to make you feel good about yourself

Calling a woman a "young lady" is supposed to kind of be a complement to a girl about how they act or the things you do. Maybe it makes you uncomfortable because you rather be called them, you should definitely tell them this if that is the case. Communication is key when it comes to these things. If you don't, you expect them to read your mind?

I don't find it weird though and they're not a creep @juvon. When people do that it is best to just keep cool and just ignore those kind of things, most of the time they didn't know and don't really understand this kind of stuff as much as we do.

I 100% agree with Maribitt, I somewhat understand your feelings though.

Raven

Some of yall like to disrespect teachers so that is a good reason why they can't stand you. You should probably ask them when it is a good time for you to talk with them 1 on 1 and then you can kind of sort it out. It definitely will feel weird trying to fix this with them but I promise you it is worth it, hell I always ran to the principal if the teacher was being a asshat so that is a good idea lol.

I did this for 13 years, all of my teachers that I can remember always had somekind of passion for teaching. Of course we always have opinions and issues with some but now that I think about it 90% of the chance you were in the wrong or started this. I'm sure it is the same for the ones who complain about teachers..

Of course my school district is not the same but for the most part all teachers were fine.

Almond

Some good old Raven truth tbh

Weeblikeartist

hah i dont think there creeps but i feel uncomfortable but i totaly get were your coming from. i just hate it so much. i hate the idealogical concept of gend3r in general. i wish people understood others. you dont have to agree you just have to respect it thats,what i say. peope are w8erd and confusing.

Raven

Again, without you telling them how you feel nothing will be done and nobody will understand you or your dislikes.

I find it a little strange that you dislike people doing this to you and you don't take the steps to fix the issue. Everyone is weird in their own way, there is nothing you can do to fix this. You are weird, we all are. I also don't really agree that everyone is confusing.

If you don't express your feelings, you can't expect anyone to change.

Weeblikeartist

yes i know. im going to today. im getting ready to go out. we have unifrm in the uk (sob)