(OLD)I think im trans, but idk ..

[spawnist]

hi chat it's respwn again :3
yippe anyway. im been a girl all my life. but i really feel like he/him and they/them pronowns suit me more, but like i dont know how dysphora works? like i dont want/feel like i need a d/ck / bodyhair, im fine how i am, but i really hate my chest. (id lower my voice too ofc :3)

its really confuseing. i dunno what to do.
like, am i not a true trans person? i like girly stuff and all that, i dont think it will make me less of a man lol. (i hope)

(sadily im to scared to talk to any1 abt it besides online ppl, and i want to know if this is normal or if im just fakeing it for internet points or something!! all opinions matter)

{EDIT} :
thanks for the support everyone! it means a ton!!
(like srsly <3)

[Evil Overlord]

i understand what you mean but don't quite know how to quantify it.

you can be trans while not caring for any of the guy bits, I'm sure there's a term for it I'm not aware of due to me not being chronically online. but at the same time you could just be experiencing dysphoria about those specific qualities aswell as liking masc. pronouns

at the end of the day, do what you think you want most. if you just wanna be referred to with masc pronouns and are dysphoric about that one quality, there's thing like binders for that but yea idfk bro.

[_Izzy_]

if you want to use they them or he him just do it, you dont need to justify it or use the label 'trans', you dont need to have gender dysphoria or whatever to use whatever pronouns you like, its rlly up to you and doesnt need to be as deep as some people make it, do what ever you want as long as you arent bothering ppl over it:)
(also you can still be girly and like feminine things and use he him pronouns, theres no rules to this stuff!)

[spawnist]

@_Izzy_ i Would (and i do online ^^) but im scared of the hate, where i am its pretty bad to be trans rn and i talked abt how id love to be a boy w/ my dad, and i think hes anti :c (hes basicly paying for my college and i dont want to fuck us up)
(edit: also my grandparents / other family & friends would be confused)
thanks for your imput btw!

[spawnist]

@Ishmael. thanks 4 your imput :D

[Biblecampvictim]

Ur trance

[spawnist]

@Biblecampvictim 'trance' lol xD (no hate, it was funny af)

thanks for your imput!

[Faust]

@spawnist In all cases, you really do not need HRT to be trans

Sure you can cut your hair, wear binders, and go to the gym, but that's already more than enough to show you prefer to be a male

[KiwiFarmsArkavel]

w GIR

[spawnist]

@SweetLikeTarmac thanks for your feedback :D
ive told my mom i pref he/they, but i told her not to do anything abt it.

also, i was looking at femboi stuff today in class so Lolz xD

[spawnist]

@Faust yippe thats good :D
(im broke- twt)

[spawnist]

@KiwiFarmsArkavel gir is swagger

[KiwiFarmsArkavel]

can I be a mongoose -Gir

[spawnist]

@KiwiFarmsArkavel yes you can be a mongoose

[ilovecats2018]

[spawnist]

@ilovecats2018 said in (pls interact)I think im trans, but idk ..:

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I dont understand- .m.
(btw i love your cat banner!)

[Biblecampvictim]

@spawnist

[ilovecats2018]

@spawnist why do you suddenly "feel like he/him pronouns suit you better"? I'd genuinely like to know what caused you to think this? Btw thanks.

[yeehaw]

@ilovecats2018 Because that's their PREFERENCE. You need to understand that.

[spawnist]

@ilovecats2018 they just feel more real and 'correct' lol. i dont know how to explain yet, my apologies!