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im 14, and im coming out as a femboy, but I am juged by my family...

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    ZenkoZan
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    Don't worry about it. The shorter time you spend with that "family" of yours, the better.

    Wannabe "family" parents like that really push my buttons (no pun of gaming intended). All they can think about is their reputation instead of their kids' future. It's just not fair. Stuff like this makes me lose hope in humanity and our evolutionary line.

    If someone said that we were devolving, I 100% agree. We are forgetting the things that MAKE us human: compassion and care. Without those two, chaos will ensue. No doubt about it, dude, that is NOT your "family". If they aren't supportive of you, they don't really care. They just want to raise you so they can write off their child pay and get extra money from their jobs or cheques. If you ever need to talk, I'm here.

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    • GingerSnapperG GingerSnapper

      y-...youre 14? being a femboy is symbolized as something sexual- the definition of being a "femboy" is a homosexual adult man over 20 with a feminine aperance and wears feminine clothes.

      i suggest when/if youre coming out to say youre gay and you wanna start dressing feminin. either way, youre to young to be calling yourself a femboy..

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      @GingerSnapper There are two definitions. It is ony sexualised because people make it out to be. For example, FEM...BOY. It is in the name, obviously. FEMinine BOY. Think of this as GENDERFLUID, with a kick to it, I suppose.

      Then, there is "femboy". Which is what people think of when they hear that word..."twinks" are a type of femboy, for ANOTHER illustration on how absolutely diabolically disgusting the internet CAN be.

      This guy's DEFINITELY not too young to be a ''femboy'', as rational thinking STARTS at 13, and DEVELOPS FURTHER at 16, only then "completing" at 21.

      The guy's fine. Let 'em be who they wanna be. Don't mean to sound pushy or anything, but that isn't really a nice way to put "don't be a femboy yet". It

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        y-...youre 14? being a femboy is symbolized as something sexual- the definition of being a "femboy" is a homosexual adult man over 20 with a feminine aperance and wears feminine clothes.

        i suggest when/if youre coming out to say youre gay and you wanna start dressing feminin. either way, youre to young to be calling yourself a femboy..

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        @GingerSnapper its not sexual unless you make it sexual. why was that your first thought. you're an adult

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          @GingerSnapper There are two definitions. It is ony sexualised because people make it out to be. For example, FEM...BOY. It is in the name, obviously. FEMinine BOY. Think of this as GENDERFLUID, with a kick to it, I suppose.

          Then, there is "femboy". Which is what people think of when they hear that word..."twinks" are a type of femboy, for ANOTHER illustration on how absolutely diabolically disgusting the internet CAN be.

          This guy's DEFINITELY not too young to be a ''femboy'', as rational thinking STARTS at 13, and DEVELOPS FURTHER at 16, only then "completing" at 21.

          The guy's fine. Let 'em be who they wanna be. Don't mean to sound pushy or anything, but that isn't really a nice way to put "don't be a femboy yet". It

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          @ZenkoZan Yeah!! It's similar to identifying as a catboy or a furry or whatever else
          It isn't inherently sexual, just a hobby or something you like to call yourself

          There is still time. Live your life as yourself.
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            @GingerSnapper There are two definitions. It is ony sexualised because people make it out to be. For example, FEM...BOY. It is in the name, obviously. FEMinine BOY. Think of this as GENDERFLUID, with a kick to it, I suppose.

            Then, there is "femboy". Which is what people think of when they hear that word..."twinks" are a type of femboy, for ANOTHER illustration on how absolutely diabolically disgusting the internet CAN be.

            This guy's DEFINITELY not too young to be a ''femboy'', as rational thinking STARTS at 13, and DEVELOPS FURTHER at 16, only then "completing" at 21.

            The guy's fine. Let 'em be who they wanna be. Don't mean to sound pushy or anything, but that isn't really a nice way to put "don't be a femboy yet". It

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            @ZenkoZan i just feel like a child shouldnt be using an overly sexualized term to explain himself. and even then to older folk such as his parents i gave advice on how to reword it so it sounds,,, less

            > Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room, a rubber room. A rubber room with rats. The rats made me crazy! Crazy? I was crazy once...

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              Don't worry about it. The shorter time you spend with that "family" of yours, the better.

              Wannabe "family" parents like that really push my buttons (no pun of gaming intended). All they can think about is their reputation instead of their kids' future. It's just not fair. Stuff like this makes me lose hope in humanity and our evolutionary line.

              If someone said that we were devolving, I 100% agree. We are forgetting the things that MAKE us human: compassion and care. Without those two, chaos will ensue. No doubt about it, dude, that is NOT your "family". If they aren't supportive of you, they don't really care. They just want to raise you so they can write off their child pay and get extra money from their jobs or cheques. If you ever need to talk, I'm here.

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              @ZenkoZan

              This is exactly why the world is how it is today.

              You don't understand the amount of work it takes to keep a roof over your heads, instead you sit here and bash parents about how they're raising you. If you're eating food and living under someones roof, they obviously care about you enough to pay for you.

              @sillysora99 Honestly, it is their house and i think you should follow their rules without any further issues. The audacity for you to say something like that shows how ungrateful humans can be.

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                @GingerSnapper its not sexual unless you make it sexual. why was that your first thought. you're an adult

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                @sam-the-man mmhh- i was saying that because it was mostly used like that when i was younger-

                > Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room, a rubber room. A rubber room with rats. The rats made me crazy! Crazy? I was crazy once...

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                  @ZenkoZan

                  This is exactly why the world is how it is today.

                  You don't understand the amount of work it takes to keep a roof over your heads, instead you sit here and bash parents about how they're raising you. If you're eating food and living under someones roof, they obviously care about you enough to pay for you.

                  @sillysora99 Honestly, it is their house and i think you should follow their rules without any further issues. The audacity for you to say something like that shows how ungrateful humans can be.

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                  @Raven my mom keeps a roof over my head. she also hits me, tells me she wishes i was never born, and controls every single aspect of my life. my dad kept a roof over my head. he did unspeakable things to me. am i ungrateful?

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                    The shes just a bad parent and and a foolish adult, that shouldn't be hard to explain.

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                      The shes just a bad parent and and a foolish adult, that shouldn't be hard to explain.

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                      @Raven alr was js making sure you didnt think i was ungrateful for disliking my mom

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                        Majority of the parents today do not approve of things that are just now a thing, i mean i bet they view it as something bad because they were raised differently and/or didn't experience the things that kids experience everyday.

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                          Majority of the parents today do not approve of things that are just now a thing, i mean i bet they view it as something bad because they were raised differently and/or didn't experience the things that kids experience everyday.

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                          @Raven

                          Exactly! Man, NOW it makes sense!

                          This is what I mean! They deem it "dangerous! Harmful! Big no-no!!!!" because it is NEW. Well, because of the way they brought us up, it will depict whether we deem it safe. If we do? They didn't teach us to be cautious. If we don't? Then they did their job right.

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                            ohh... i didnt know that i was too young to.be a femboy...

                            Kairi-chan uwu

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                              oh just to be clear they dont know that i am trans, its kinda secretive so i have to pretend that i am not, and my parents are not mean people, its just their religon so it doesn't really bother me, and please prefer me as she/her...

                              Kairi-chan uwu

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                                ohh... i didnt know that i was too young to.be a femboy...

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                                @sillysora99 are you a femboy or are you transfem

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                                  im trans, all this time i thought a femboy meant trans, srry forth confusion everyone...!

                                  Kairi-chan uwu

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                                    all this time i thought femboy meant trans, so i am actually transgender!

                                    Kairi-chan uwu

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                                    • GingerSnapperG GingerSnapper

                                      y-...youre 14? being a femboy is symbolized as something sexual- the definition of being a "femboy" is a homosexual adult man over 20 with a feminine aperance and wears feminine clothes.

                                      i suggest when/if youre coming out to say youre gay and you wanna start dressing feminin. either way, youre to young to be calling yourself a femboy..

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                                      @sillysora99 being a femboy is something sexual and as you are a minor your prefontal cortex (which helps you make wise decision-making skills is actually not fully developed until 25 now right now being a femboy you can revert back into a cisgender heterosexual male but if you get ''gender affirming care that is more permanent and if you regret it as an adult it becomes way harder to go back. now it is your body your choice i just am reccomending to thiink carefully over your options before you do something you regret later in life

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                                        @GingerSnapper There are two definitions. It is ony sexualised because people make it out to be. For example, FEM...BOY. It is in the name, obviously. FEMinine BOY. Think of this as GENDERFLUID, with a kick to it, I suppose.

                                        Then, there is "femboy". Which is what people think of when they hear that word..."twinks" are a type of femboy, for ANOTHER illustration on how absolutely diabolically disgusting the internet CAN be.

                                        This guy's DEFINITELY not too young to be a ''femboy'', as rational thinking STARTS at 13, and DEVELOPS FURTHER at 16, only then "completing" at 21.

                                        The guy's fine. Let 'em be who they wanna be. Don't mean to sound pushy or anything, but that isn't really a nice way to put "don't be a femboy yet". It

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                                        @ZenkoZan but he is too young. when he is 18 he can do whatever he wants but please dont try to confuse him.

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                                          femboys are sexualized bc creeps sexualize them but tbh, it's his choice i'm neither defending nor arguing against this i'm giving my neutral opinion

                                          I actually do enjoy the taste of sharpie-

                                          If you can read this, that means you're gay.

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