"there's a man" trend is is ether the most reasonable thing ever or it's just insane.

[Yanderemenhera]

I have seen some I like and that are pretty reasonable takes like pay in the gender gap, how stupid it is that public restrooms will only have a baby changing station and other useful items in the woman's room which is just stupid, old, and mysogenistic cus mother's aren't the only one child rearing and fathers, older brothers, uncles ECT exist and it sucks for everyone regardless 😩 or like takes on different country's treating women like shit and them having zero rights cus some b!tchy old fart is enjoying the power trip it gives them (also, I know sometimes stuff might be tided to religion, and if the woman has a say and let's say wants to do that, good for them, but when it's forced on literally every woman it's horrible.) but then I will see something that just looks like... how put it.. some insane conspiracy theory like ig jars are extra tight so women can't open them so men can stay in power or that men liking shorter women like going off of statistics means that all men are creeps when imo, most men i've met want to a girl shorter than them and most women want a man taller then them, and I honestly don't think that's neccerally creepy, men are usually taller than women and women are usually shorter than men. I understand why they are trying to imply by saying that but I feel like a 5'3 woman is well, a woman. my friend is 5'7 and his gf is 5'3 so he's taller than she is and idk what's supposed to be done about that, like short women aren't allowed to date? only women 5'6 and over are allowed to date a man? like genuinely idk what the person who posted that wants to do about this to fix the issue. then i've seen one's that'll propose a solution to there greavence and it always involves some sort of like, reeducation facility for all men or a prison or some sort of like concept of a society where it's only women and all men are ether ig dead or have their own society and i'm just like "how the actual f^ck would we implement this?" or "I agree women have been treated like shit throughout history but.. like.. is this really an ethical thing to do?" or i'll just be left thinking "I am sorry you have daddy issues and despite the bi-weekly therapy apponitments you couldn't work through this hate you have for men and I hope you can one day see who hurt you and not just blaming half of the population for everything" and ik it's teens on YouTube shorts who think they are pointing out some revolutionary ideas when in reality it's just slop content =-= like, I would consider myself a feminist but posting what I can only describe as boys VS. girls content it pmo, it's not going to actually help or benefit women in any way, and sure some of it ig could be good at spreading awareness to an issue but a chunk of it I have seen just makes me feel bad for the person who made it, and tbf I might have a more neutral view on stuff bc I'll be 1000000% honest i've been hurt by both men and women so I never developed a fear of one over the other so maybe I just "don't understand" what the girls posting this are going through to make post this crap but I feel like this is one of the reasons GEN Z is so lonely, we won't stop the boys VS. girls crap online so we have the young men who grow up with people like clavicular and we have this =-= I will likely make a post later about the oppeset side of the coin with the young men who hate women but I wanted to post this first bc it's fresh on my mind

[itscookiebear]

somehow very reasonably parargraph

[Yanderemenhera]

@itscookiebear I am a women, so I have obviously seen mysogony in my life first hand and experienced it, but online a lot of women will hate men, and a lot of men will hate women and i'm just sitting there like "so you both hate each other and you both want a partner or at least a friend cuz you are lonely. how about you, woman, stop being insane and posting about how we should erradicate all men, and how about you man, you stop watching gym bro content and posting about women being like, objects and shit and you two both and like, go on a date." it just honestly feels like middle school boys VS. girls stuff you'd hear little kids biccer about

[seal]

@Yanderemenhera i think both misogyny and man-hating are wrong but from what ive seen, most man haters have a reason (such as traumatic experiences with multiple) znd most misogynists are just right wing closeted gay men
maybe im too woke tho

[itscookiebear]

im not a girl or boy im nonbinary meaning im they/they but i still want to help

[itscookiebear]

their needs to be more ppl involved

[Yanderemenhera]

@seal yeah, I do agree with you there, it reminds me of a point someone made like, hurting a woman is worse than a woman being like, a good digger and finacally taking advantage of them, and 1000% agree, but obviously taking advantage of men is still shitty =-= like how some crimes are worse than others but they are still crimes and not "good"

[sweetpuddin]

guys hot take
we should all be kind and nice and hold hands and skip and look at flowers
peacemaxxing

[Yanderemenhera]

@sweetpuddin 👍

[freedom fries]

never even heard of this. looks like you're just on the wrong side of the internet imo.

[seal]

@Yanderemenhera notallowed to upvote for some reason but i couldnt have said it better myself

[Yanderemenhera]

@seal I put it in a category that had upvotes disabled, EOTF (edge of the forum) is usually used for shitposting or things that can easily derail or get a bit off topic so upvotes were disabled, I posted this here bc I wasn't sure how well it'd be received and if it might get derailed from the original point

[BoredRat]

@Yanderemenhera too long did not read

[seal]

@Yanderemenhera OH i did not know that, thanks!

[Yanderemenhera]

@seal I think EOTF is the only category with up/downvotes disabled

[sweetpuddin]

@BoredRat tbh it is rather large
get bgpt to summarise its </3

[sweetpuddin]

@Yanderemenhera i miss when we had freedom,,

[itscookiebear]

yay more ppl r involved