Would I be a good mom?

nataliezz

Here's my official rules for my future children.

No electronics until 3rd grade, you'll get a tablet in 3rd grade and a phone when your 13, kids need to focus on their creativity and imagination. There will be no parental controls besides a downtime 7-10 8 PM 13-15 9 PM 15+ None just dont make my phone bill crazy
Dating, is based off of maturity, if my elementary kid were to have a school girl/boy friend i wouldn't mind bc their young, but y'all wont be hanging out. For middle schoolers y'all can hang out with doors cracked open, i will put my foot down if the relationship is toxic, i care abt their safety. Anything above 16 i don't really care, if you have a kid thats on you, i will help with financial and mental help though for your child.
Hanging out, I do not care if my kid hangs out with their friends, its a healthy thing actually, ill let em hang out with friends 2-3 times a week, yes opposite genders are allowed to hang out, im not a helicopter parent
Beliefs, you can have any beliefs you want, we are not supporting of any wrongdoings such as ICE. If your LGBTQ that's nice i support you! N if your trans I'll make sure you feel validated. If your apart of any spefic religion (besides anything like Satanism n spawnism) that's cool I will support u!
Clothing, I dont think little kids should be wearing things teenagers do, some things are acceptable but i want my kids to show off their uniqueness, also with bathing suits, for girls especially I want one pieces till yall r like 15, we dont need to expose ourselves
Food, obv i want you to eat somewhat healthy, get ur produce n protein in, but if you dont like something nobody is forcing you to eat it, we can find alternatives, N im not crazy with junk food, maybe like 2 small things a day with balance in between :))
No energy drinks till 13, that ws the same rule for me, its the same for my kids for their safety
Sports, I will be encouraging my kids to play sports, i will not force them though!
Mental health, if you are having thoughts or SH you will be sent to a children's hospital, n i mean a nice one that actually cares, bc they have helped me sm n i care abt my kids
That's about it :)) comment below if I'm a W mom

Nonbinary_wolf

Yes, u would.

Yougot1960ed

Yeah you would

Wubbrle

Honestly yeah. I ain't no expert but... approved!

Laner2018

Yeah until you got to 4, but whatever

SweetLikeTarmac

w rules

macncheese.

good
i would monitor the things they watch on their tablet tho
some things can be a bad influence ngl

SweetLikeTarmac

@nataliezz the only thing I don't like is the no screen time limit. screens are a big factor of mental illness and depression. at least make sure they get good outside time, its really good for you.
are you going to let your kids have social media? I have mixed emotions about social media, I wouldn't want my kids to find their worth in followers and shi. but I don't want to isolate them from human interaction.
also kids be watching freaky shi even on yt kids so imo you should be monitoring.

Nared

These rules are ok.

lemoned

definitely not good in my opinion, but eh or bad. some good some bad. 3 and 5-8 are good, and others bad or have ideas done wrongly. 1: me personally, i dont think ppl under 14 (job age) atleast should have internet. internet ruine my mental health, and i lit tried to kms. also to encourage friends cuz #3, and so they can hav childhood. 2: dont let ur kid become wh---s or bops or ppl who purposelu get groomed (date way older males). dating pre-highschool is all js bopping around or imaturity or lust. highschool fine though, and as said middle school not, elementary is not real/immaturity. 4: hypocritical. "you can have any beliefs you want, buuutt.." kids will not trust you if punish for they beliefs. satanism, spawnism makw sense tho cuz they cults, and me personally i think u shoul get ur kids into counseling for mental health ir they trans cuz thats calle gender dysphoria, and is real disorer. sadly peeople just give in tho. 9: mental hospigal just make it worse. i been there beforw and some other place.. which i will not say.. i have sui---l ideation myself, and 4 mntal health disorder, but i nor anyone deserv togo there. thank for readig lol. typed on f--k-ss ninendo switc so sorry for bad typing. rip pc 2024-2026, parents threw it away :-(. also you thought alot about it dewpite being 13 so good you dkd good lol js ur young so its ok. anywy bye,bye

LarryFire

Yea

LarryFire

Better than my mom