Anyone else hate people who try to control others?

[UnpaidIntern]

Like they usually try to threaten others into doing what they want, give ultimatums, throw tantrums when they dont get what they want, or outright hurt others and force them into doing something they want. Like just straight up the worst type of person.

This includes manipulative asf people.

One time I experienced some random kid on fortnite (like 13-14) a year ago acting like this by trying to force me to give him my age after randomly friend requesting me, when I just ignored it because... like... why? (also voice changers exist that make people sound younger I think). When I ignored them they started threatening to report me and to not be my "friend" and threw a full tantrum (i just kept ignoring them lmao and left after reporting them). Now imagine those people but older....

[dizzy-the-loser]

is it me??

[UnpaidIntern]

@dizzy-the-loser no.... what? when how? why

[dizzy-the-loser]

@UnpaidIntern i just read the title not the post

[UnpaidIntern]

(this reply is not targeted at loser lmao, 'you' refers to anyone who thinks they're at all like this post)

I legit had like nobody unbanned on this forum in mind while making this post, uhhhhh if you think this applies to you then stop doing that, wtf, like specifically this, stop doing this if you are doing this

[dizzy-the-loser]

@UnpaidIntern fr! i should read before i comment tho!

[UnpaidIntern]

This does not apply when people try to stop others from doing or saying horrible things that truly harm others and have an actual logical reason for why it is bad (murder, stealing, hate speech, etc.), that's more just like having any sense of morality or justice by refusing to enable people (inaction or silence is enabling too).

[Noctis]

Ik I've been through this before

[xenthy]

because it is manipulation, its guilt-tripping to get their way.

theres also a specific type for throwing tantrums, i forgot the name but it is guilt tripping.

[Yanderemenhera]

@xenthy

@xenthy said:

because it is manipulation, its guilt-tripping to get their way.

theres also a specific type for throwing tantrums, i forgot the name but it is guilt tripping.

gaslighting?

[Yanderemenhera]

was that what you're thinking of?

[xenthy]

@Yanderemenhera I think its the guilt of having someone mad... i thought gaslighting was "that never happend"
i think its guilt-tripping but there was a thing i learned about the types of manipulation and one was a form to do with a man acting like a child (crying screaming and wtv) to make someone sympathize or feel guilty and give in due to the pressure. its a form of manipulation.

which is why whenever i absolutely destroy in fortnite and some kid adds me and tries to beg i say "no" and unfriend them.

edit: its basically the same as when a kid cries and throws a tantrum in a store because he didnt get a toy, usially they get their way and they do it agiann... and agian... till the parent puts a stop to it and punishes them or they realise it doesnt work.