me and my bf are on a break
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recently ive been getting irritated by everything he says. like 2 days ago we were having a great conversation and he said a phrase i didnt know the meaning of, so i ask what it meant and he says he wants me to find out on my own. i didnt talk to him for most of the next day. tonight i tried to grow up and get over it because i love him and i try to start a conversation, but i cant help but feel tired from talking to him. this goes on for a bit, by now i feel sorta sick because ik im being horrible to him but i dont have it in me to apologize, and i expected him to apologize for something, literally anything so i could get over it. instead i finally admit he's why im mad, and apparently he already knew and its always him. i try to explain what im feeling, then he says he loves me but he doesnt know how to help (i said i just felt empty) and that he's lost himself too. but he's always like that so its nothing new. it was a short conversation because he said we need a break. i was thinking the same thing for days but he beat me to it. i said ok. now im crying because i feel terrible and all of a sudden i remember all the good things about us. he never texted me back when i agreed to the break which made it even worse. idk why im like this i just keep hurting him and i dont want to. i love him but im too scared to break the hour of no contact (very pathetic, i know.)
i feel like im in the wrong idk this kinda sucks.
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tbh i feel like you are, Bc you're kinda ot talking to him abt it, but he's a lil in the wrong for not telling you what the phrase ment and told you to find it yourself. I might be a stranger to you, but i kinda know both of you are in the wrong for not discussing it to each other. Yet again- i might be a child and not know much. But this is what i CAN say. Please dont yell at me for getting this wrong. I hope you DO have a great day/night.
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At the end of the day, the baseline for a relationship is that it's supposed to make those involved happier, lovey-dovey, etc. But from what you've described it doesn't exactly sound that way. You both deserve a relationship where you do feel happier and not getting ticked off by little things
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tbh i feel like you are, Bc you're kinda ot talking to him abt it, but he's a lil in the wrong for not telling you what the phrase ment and told you to find it yourself. I might be a stranger to you, but i kinda know both of you are in the wrong for not discussing it to each other. Yet again- i might be a child and not know much. But this is what i CAN say. Please dont yell at me for getting this wrong. I hope you DO have a great day/night.
@Echo_isnt_here js google the phrase
Albert is a real one
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@Borдt thats what i thought
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@Borдt what phrase?
@Echo_isnt_here idk can @starz4rydz say the phrase i might know it
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@Ventrell but they never said the phrase :sob:
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@Echo_isnt_here idk can @starz4rydz say the phrase i might know it
@Ventrell sorry, I'm pretty sure the phrase was like "build a person to trust" .. it was like 2 in the morning and I couldnt think straight so my first thought was to ask him what it meant
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ohhh
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i hope u guys work it out
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Update: I talked to some people and explained it better, mentioning the other times little things he's said set me off and they said I was completely valid for getting mad at those things. I personally don't feel like it was right but my friends were saying I should talk to him because if I didn't it would harm our relationship. rn I'm typing out a paragraph to send to him explaining my thoughts better.
Ik my first post already explained it but the image is how I explained it to my friends
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ohhhhhhh....
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@Echo_isnt_here idk can @starz4rydz say the phrase i might know it
@Ventrell said in me and my bf are on a break:
@Echo_isnt_here idk can @starz4rydz say the phrase i might know it
Sonshine got muted and changed his bio for it 😭😭😭
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Update 2 (i kinda forgot to post on the day of): so i told him how i felt about like things he had said and kind of apologized for my behavior because i personally felt it wasnt valid.. then he asked if i was sure i wanted to talk to him again because he didnt want to force the relationship. long story short we had a conversation and neither of us wanted to lose eachother so now we’re good yay🥹 (this actually sounds so corny now that i type it out but wtv😞) this all happened 3 days ago and no issues have occured since then so maybe it was just a temporary thing. im ngl the break was freaking me out so im glad we fixed things. 10 months not wasted!! 🎉
ok i think thats about it bye bye
