people who just hurt others (excluding mental disorders) who think they're "selfish" are so stupid

[NeverLetMeDown]

@french_fry_guy

Took the words right out of my fingertips

[french_fry_guy]

And trust me, I’ve dealt with one of these fakers and it’s left such a big impact on me that I can’t look at big emails without wanting to cry (live laugh get harassed and cussed out every day for months straight for literally anything). These people suck absolute [censored] and I hope that they can grow up and realize “oh shit, being a terrible person because I think it’s cool for some reason is actually really awful! Especially for those around me and the one person that actually still gives a damn about me!”

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown good lol, I’m not dealing with this right now because posts like this isn’t helping the situation, especially when it’s not taking a moment of using the very thing that they’re complaining about (hint, it starts with an E and ends with mpathy) 🫩️

[NeverLetMeDown]

Alleged empath complains about lack of empathy in others when they have no idea how it actually works

Sorry this format is the only way I can put my thoughts into words otherwise I think I might have a stroke

Like the way you talk about it makes it seem like you're saying lack of empathy is a choice when its not at all if I could I would be the ultimate empath (no I wouldnt) but it doesnt work that way

[UnpaidIntern]

@french_fry_guy sorry btw, I didn't mean anyone with actual mental disorders it's more like random edgy internet users who actively create weird logic to justify hurting others while claiming that they're like just helping themselves out

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown although this is accurate I’m giggling lol
And as an empath it kinda sucks. Having this need to be there for literally everyone for anything even when they have hurt you so bad you can look at an email or get touched anymore is so terrible. I love helping people which is why I do it, but I can’t even say no without feeling bad.

[french_fry_guy]

@UnpaidIntern Ik dw

[NeverLetMeDown]

Topics on empathy and shit make me tweaaak dafuq out because like you just don't actually understand it enough to be complaining about it

This sounds ridiculous but I'm right

[NeverLetMeDown]

@french_fry_guy

Its like a lose-lose situation

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown said in evil people who just hurt others who think they're "selfish" are so stupid:

Like the way you talk about it makes it seem like you're saying lack of empathy is a choice when its not at all if I could I would be the ultimate empath but it doesnt work that way

This ️
You can’t control what you feel, and it’s like trying to tell an AroAce person to just “have romantic feelings for someone” when they literally can’t. And if you were an ultimate empath you would be constantly be contradicting yourself. You know how bad the world is and yet you’re so willing to help anyone just because you want to

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown pretty much. It’s either never fully understand why you hurt people or always try to help someone who’ll just hurt you anyway

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown you are 100% right
Empathy is subjective itself. No one knows how much empathy there actually is, only what you feel and what you can observe

[TH4TTR4N5F3M_VA]

holy wall of text

[french_fry_guy]

@TH4TTR4N5F3M_VA yea

[NeverLetMeDown]

@french_fry_guy

Yes empathy is subjective I was trying to figure out how to word this earlier but I could not figure it out thank you oh my god

[french_fry_guy]

@NeverLetMeDown NP twin

[UnpaidIntern]

@NeverLetMeDown sry, i did not mean to make this about empathy, which I now know is NOT the correct word to use here

[french_fry_guy]

@UnpaidIntern “common sense” isn’t much better : /

[french_fry_guy]

Common sense is even more subjective because it changes based on the person, place, topic of discussion, and context of the given situation. You can’t tell me in full honesty you’ve never said anything or did anything that you don’t regret. That is an example of not using “common sense,” and if you did, then why did you do that?

[w1ckedsticky1983]

@french_fry_guy hey, stop being correct. I'm gonna run out of upvotes in this thread