Romance

Rusty

What's your thought on romance? For example, you may value it, or perhaps you may see it as useless.

Erika43

don't like romance. pretty overhyped imo, but that's probably just because I've never experienced it. However, if every romantic relationship is like the ones I see every day, then I don't want to.

vulpinefox

Idk, I,ve been in relationships before, but I can never really get attached to them i say i love them but i feel nothing, its weird

niconiconico

I think romance is really a weird thing, on one hand it is absolutely amazing and can rock your world but on another it can drive you to do really irrational things. I think the best relationships are the ones you get out of not caring about romance anymore, that tends to be when it hits you. I hate how people are always scrambling to find partners, just go about your life till you fall in love, if you force it you arent gonna get much happiness out of it - Someone in a happy relationship who didnt care about romance and love before he met his girlfriend

macncheese.

I mean....
I like it!

Yougot1960ed

@Rusty Imma be real Romance is cool and all but I might be Aromantic I usually prefer keeping to fantasies but I don't develop crushes unless the person I have a crush on like me...

niconiconico

@Yougot1960ed theres a label on the aroace spectrum for that its reciprosexual where you like someone if they like you

seal

i cannot sense peoples intentions and i always try to see the best in people so i dont have great luck

but i finally found someone i trust completely

french_fry_guy

When I was in love I was so overwhelmed by it that i hated feeling it. I loved my partner unconditionally but there were times I had to stop talking to them because of how overwhelming it got. I love romance, i really do, it's just a LOT emotionally. In order for you to be happy while in love you have to make sure you're happy with yourself- that's the part I missed. "Your soulmate isn't your missing piece, they're your complement." -Garnet. My ex partner and I are amazing friends, but I'm really relived to have that distance. There's times I miss dating them but in all reality I need more time for myself and our relationship got really co-dependent (we def needed to take a break). And hell, maybe one day we'll make it work, but even if that never happens I'm just happy to call them my best friend. But all and all, romance is beautiful but good GOD is it messy. Don't get in a relationship that might get serious or long term without knowing you're ok on your own, it saves a lot of crying and anxiety, trust me.

Yanderemenhera

I don't really view a partner as like, a missing piece, but as their own person, a person who does make you feel loved and comforted and you do the same for them but you're still able to do your own things and stuff.

I think what romance is varies from person to person and that's a good, normal thing, it should vary since everyone is different.

I don't think everyone needs to view romance as an important milestone or anything, if you do wanna have a partner and that makes you both happy and you both love each other that's good, but if you don't really want someone, that's fine too.

I personally do view romance as an important thing for me, like how i'd like to go to college.

(I am currently dating someone rn btw)

though my view on romance might be a little different, I am ace but I really do enjoy romance lol

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...........I have to much to say, im not even gonna comment.

MyMelody

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