How to know if i'm lesbian or bisexual?

[Aries]

I'm honestly internally cringing from this post already, but i've been thinking this for a while. I've known that I like girls for 5 years now, as soon as I had my first crush I just automatically assumed I was gay but I honestly didn't want to be. I turned to being bisexual instead, which is how i've been identifying myself for a while now but I know it doesn't fit. There's always this thought at the back of my mind though, what if I get it wrong? I honestly don't really feel attracted to men but then what if I am and just haven't found the right person yet?

[french_fry_guy]

Well, you can be bisexual with female preference, but if you really haven’t felt any romantic attraction to guys/masculine people then you very well could be lesbian. There’s nothing wrong with being either! And for me I’m pansexual. I used to think I only liked girls but that’s because I fell in love with a girl (well, demigirl). When I was with her I ONLY liked girls; no if, ands, or buts. Now that I have a crush on a guy I seem to only like boys. I don’t know if this helps but you very well could be attracted to personality over gender, or you could just like girls, it’s ultimately up to you how you identify yourself. You can also just like what you like and identify as queer/labeless, there’s no pressure to figure it out today or even this year, it’s your personal journey.