@KiwiFarmsArkavel downvote

@PhantemXtX - my fav lil bum, we usually talk on discord though. was hated in 2025, but none cares now since it's 2026 and beef dies fast here.

@_Izzy_ - idk, I just think they are cool and make good art despite me not knowing them very well.

@w1ckedsticky1983 - we talk sometimes, when I get a tablet i'm def gonna draw them stuff or at least do an art trade, hell, i'd make a Vtuber or PNGtuber for them if they wanted for $0 and 0 cents. #madrespecttothem

@st4tic - it's been a while, but they are funny as shit

@Sofii - they have custody over me so I gotsta love 'em

@Cheeseman7 - is a femboy, trust. we've know each other for like, over 3 years atp ( ꈨຶ ˙̫̮ ꈨຶ ) so we have to be good friends. we talk on discord but they have an account here just in case something happens, we met outside of bns btw, i've not been on bns anywhere near that long. is literally my ride or die, I trust this mf with my life

@horatio - %(brown)[I want this little shit to come back to the forum, his DMs were amazing bro, trust. ]

i'd add more, but these are like, people who've been here a while and i've seen their post and such quite a bit. if you are on this you are my top favorite people btw.

I usually hear curvy used in place for word "fat" for example and the person being called "curvy" is well within a healthy weight range (like, let's say the woman whom is being bullied is 5'5 and 126lbs) and the women will make other passive aggressive remarks tords those women to the point now where I feel like that word is an insult and people would be mad if I used the word as a discripter for a woman.

for me, i'd use that term to describe someone who has a larger bust and hips but they have a smaller waist. their silloute would literally have curves in it. not as an insult or a replacer word for fat, not to say that people who fit into that definition are automatically healthy or anything like that. I just don't see why curvy has to be used as a stand-in for fat, if you're gonna call someone "curvy" nowadays in some areas and in some comment sections online, they'll assume you're hating on them.

i'd consider myself curvy, you're free to correct me or whatever, I genuinely have no clue my current weight but the reason i'd consider myself that is because I have a smaller waist and a larger bust/hips and I think my shoulders are a bit broad as well. I view the term "curvy" as a more netrual term to describe a body shape. it doesn't mean someone is necceraly over-weight/unhealthy. i'd assume I myself am overweight, but that doesn't mean that everyone who has a more, hourglass-ish shape is.

and I feel like another thing is, obviously we shouldn't be mean to people just for existing online, even if you think they are the human embodiment of pan scrapings from when you last cooked bacon, being catty to some randomass woman you saw on YouTube shorts posting about different types of flowers over her not being what you consider to be ideal is stupid and honestly just really fυcking sad bro, and most of the time the people don't look big at all, a lot of the time I'll see someone say "you look hella well fed, slay plus-sized curve queen" to someone who is frankly on the thinner side and obviously no hate to skinny people ether at all, they frankly get body shaming too, a lot actually depending on the region. (like where I live.)

idk wtf is going on now, bc is the in recent months I've seen body-shaming and cyber bullying become more common and widespread and things like "healthy body btw"
"curvy" "well-fed" "top-heavy" and so on become nothing more than insults and it's really sad. and not to be that guy but I feel like a lot of the (usually women) users who post that in a passive aggressive way are insecure and are using this as a cope and it sucks for all the reasons I mentioned above but i'll recap:

1:

terms to describe body shapes, or just the word healthy are now basically the worst things you could ever say to someone.

2:

this is just straight up cyber bullying and it's really damaging to have your body shamed to no end, you can change how you look, yeah? but sometimes this is pushing otherwise healthy people to do unhealthy things to try to curb the bullying.

3:

this is kinda a reflection of how the people posting this sort of thing feel about themselves a lot of the time i'd assume and it's genuinely sad and I pitty them. it doesn't justify their actions though, not at all.

now, i'm going to continue on for a bit longer to get things out of the way before wrapping up my post.

I believe a lot of issues aren't exclusive to one gender, but this I have noticed is common amoung women, body-shaming and cyber-bullying does happen amoung men and trans/non-binary folks but it usually looks different if that makes sense, men don't usually have curves the way women do and their bodyshaminng is usually over things like being skinny and not a shredded beefy gigachad sigmamale. and for trans/embys it's usually just gender dysphoria related.

also, there's a wide range of medically healthy weights you can be, health should be your top priority in life and not some random b!tch's opinion. always talk to your doctor about things like your weight if you are worried, you can also use BMI calculations online, a website will ask your age, weight, gender, and height and tell you if you'd be medically considered over-weight or not, but seriously, talk to your doctor if you're worried^^^ (minor disclaimer, BMI isn't the most accurite marker for health, but it's still decently useful, most doctors still use it to this day)

and if you're curvy and you're reading this, I wish you well. you don't deserve bullying for it, and I hope you're doing ok right now.

yes or no?

@Aries they've been broken for a long time, I have what I can only describe as a "depression room" or a "neck beard den". a lot of things broken and there's just stuff like clothes everywhere i'm lazy as shit and I need to clean it

I honestly don't get the beef tbh, now I will admit I have seen some people take things way too far or become parasocial to a disturbing degree but I think a lot of people ship themselves with fictional characters and it's only now people see it as a big deal now that we have a name for it. I wrote a detailed fantasy about salad fingers for example in a discord server, I wouldn't consider myself a yumeshipper I just like salad fingers. I think for as long as we've had fiction we've had people having romantic/familiar/platonic fantasy's with fictional people/things. I think most people have done this in one form or another, like oml, do we remember waifus and husbandos? I think this is just a newer name for something that's likely existed for as long as fiction has. maybe someone back in the victorian era read dracula and imagined mina as their wife. I only feel like this becomes an issue in cases of extreme obsession over a fictional person/thing and it has happened with things like MLP for example or slightly annoying when younger kids get online and fight with each other over who ginu from k-pop demon hunters would love more tbh or like, the age thing. I genuinely think people are willing to whine about anything these days tbh knowing damn well they do it too, just without using a term for it.

have you ever looked at someone on show's like my 600lb life or someone like niccacado avacado? this food tutorial will help turn you into a plus-sized baddie in no time!

1. 12 fluid oz of olive oil is 2,900 calories

2. one lb of butter is 3,258 calories

3. one gallon of gas is 31000 calories

4. me (minus things like organs) roughly 25,000 calories

5. one gram of uranium is 20 billion calories

tips to avoid burning calories:

1. get your set up, make sure you don't need to leave your bed or gaming chair ever.
2. find someone to take care of you full time, like your mother or your romantic partner.
3. find a way to make money online, like streeming on twitch
4. become a discord or reddit moderator.
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have an excellent day, and good luck to the obesty-maxxing people.

Spoiler

we would have a worst Christmas tree competition, where you would set up a shitty Christmas tree setup and there'd be anynoumus voting by the community via like, that google survay's thingy (I can conform those work on switch)

idk, I think it'd be fun ngl

I talked about this breefly in an annoucment post for staff applications, but a lot of people online (not even just on here) don't know how to do things like spell simple words, form a sentence let ALONE a paragraph, or what letter sound like (like, how to sound out letters. i.e. g makes a ''guh'' sound). my issue isn't with occasional typos, auto-correct changing words in a sentence, improper caps in informal posts or no periods at the end of a sentence, or shorthand like gtg, fml, pmo, idk and so on and so forth. I use shorthand, I don't punctuate my sentences all the time, and I don't normally use proper caps unless i'm doing a formal/professional post and i'm human, I make typos like spelling errors and my auto-correct doesn't usually work, but when it does, it always messes up what I wrote by changing my words after i've written them as it is likely AI that doesn't understand context. but what upsets me is when I get DMs of people who need my help and I cannot read it. I get DMs like "yu r hut ei wnna dade yu" or " u dum as uld eve his abb nw an u r een nd mi hete u" and it takes me a long time to decifer the meaning of them. some people who send me messages are legal adults too (as in, 18+) and sure, they could be little kids lying about their age, but I wouldn't be surprised if they were in fact, young adults. and you know what? i do not give a flying [censored] about wether or not public school failed them, and sure I do pitty them, but I was what would be considored ''unschooled". I taught myself to read. I taught myself everything. I had no teacher. if you are a grown adult you need to just teach yourself. put in the effort and learn. if a 7 year old me figured it out, a grown adult with even just a switch and an internet connection can. there's lots and lots of online resources to choose from. hell, even just YouTube access can help. if you can't read or spell, even if you're an adult there's no excuse, you need to learn how to read and write, chat gpt can write your loved one's text messages you can send, and you can have it read the response to you, but is it really the same? it's not. and i'll do some research later to post a post with lots of links to resources to help people learn how to read and write. remember, it's never too late to learn and there will come a day when you'll need to read and write.

@Eman771 uh... no offense, but given how you write and spell in DMs I honestly thought you were much younger

look, if you need it we have an entire post full of switch accesable mental health resources, I am fine with vent DMS aboutt literally anything, but this topic seems to be worrying people. I would not make posts like this in the future, we are not allowed to talk about the ending of one's own life or intentional injury of our bodies on here as it can be a triggering topic and/or abused for attention (not accusing you of that in particular, you honestly don't seem like that's your intention.) I hope you are doing alright whomever might be reading this, but I will be locking this topic to avoid anything from transpiring. if you need help, please consider talking to a consulter, friend or family member about it.

@Aries also, it's @Public-Relations now and i'm the sole member now lol.......

ik some people usually get all pissy when they see someone with one on, i think people forget other reasons why someone might wear one, like they or someone they are close to are immunocomprimised, they themselves are sick, they jus dont want to get other peoples germs when they are at busy areas like airports. i hate the idea that wearing one is somehow ''woke'' or anything like that, not saying everyone should wear one but why start stupid beef over someone not wanting to risk getting ill? sure, we have things like vaccines but germs still exist, covid is very much real but people wore masks before then. like, its just dumb to me to think someone is a weak [censored] over a face mask.

imagine somebody is hurting kids, do you honestly think being told that they'll neve be able to show there face on twitter again will honestly help vs reporting them to the cops? no. no it won't. but lets say there's somebody drawing horror art and they make money from ad revinue and you get them banned from the Internet/they quit from cyber bullying? but like, sure that could work but does junji ito REALLY deserve cyber bullying? over his art? like seriously, its so [censored] stupid. sybau canceling somebody isnt gonna do shit. your ether just cyber bullying someone over something [censored] dumb or you're tryna get some pred off twitter when they'll just do it regardless and you're wasting time that could be spent better calling the cops.

yeah this is right, i highly doubt we will actually nuke anyone bc they'll do the same to us, and yeah, staying inside during a bombing will help but a nuke no so much... nice topic br'ish

the singles kid: some little shit who knows how to make a simple word with beads than puts on more beads. probably sells them, always for absurd prices and only gets away with it bc of guilt tripping ''im a smol biz, why won't anyone pay 10 for some clay beads i put on string? shop smol plz'' or bc adults feel presured into it bc of there age when in realty there like 14.
the ladder stitch is bad kid: you're a [censored] jeark who doesn't wanna admit they honest to god just dont know what they are doing or that you should be using string thick like toy chicka.
peyote stich rabbit hole (me knows how to do it damn well but it doesn't look right to me and it sends me down an ocd spiral and i probably need to be given a muzzle and hazard pay if anyone asked for a peyote stitch pattern instead of latter stich.
the cuff master kid: only makes obnoxious cuffs they can't even wear then posts pics to social media and ends up becoming famous for something so impractical.

i once drew a human multing like an insect, that was nice

i hate the guy but its a free country, i can spew stupid bullshit and have someone roast my [censored] in the comment section but none should die for it. i honestly don't know how i feel about the memes tbh, i could make a joke about someone from ancient Romedying and its sociallyacceptable. i think i don't really have an opinion on the memes. but i wish big chungus was funny again

chat, thats how i look irl. come give my fatass a big hug