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  • Yanderemenheraundefined Offline
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    Yanderemenhera
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    #1

    i dont wanna be a girl. i dont wannabe a boy.... i dressed in a skirt today and i felt something.....
    it was emotionally unpleasant.... idk what it was. has anyone else experienced this?.... i used to force femininity, it worsed my body image and i made myself very unwell...
    but dressing in a more androgynous way helped.
    has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? i want to dress the way i shoul deap down, im a girl. but it doesn't feel right. not at all.... i just hate it... i dont vent on here a lot, but i think maybe people here might understand?

    wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
    hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
    my new grounds account is called phroggered
    look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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      then in my book, i dont think your a girl if it feels wrong

      dumb insecure puppygirl

      she/her if you use he/him on me i will hunt you down and kindly remind you to use she/her :heart:

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        Lwk kinda relateable.. I've felt like this before and i know its hard to feel like this and especially hard on your mental health and self-esteem.

        If dressing androgynous makes you feel better, then do it! Nobody is stopping you. If you don't feel like a boy or girl, maybe you're nonbinary(?)

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        • Yanderemenheraundefined Offline
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          #4

          yeah..

          wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
          hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
          my new grounds account is called phroggered
          look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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            #5

            id say this is very enby coded, but you choose what label you like :3

            dumb insecure puppygirl

            she/her if you use he/him on me i will hunt you down and kindly remind you to use she/her :heart:

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            • Yanderemenheraundefined Offline
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              Yanderemenhera
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              #6

              emby... maybe

              wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
              hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
              my new grounds account is called phroggered
              look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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              • Yanderemenheraundefined Yanderemenhera

                i dont wanna be a girl. i dont wannabe a boy.... i dressed in a skirt today and i felt something.....
                it was emotionally unpleasant.... idk what it was. has anyone else experienced this?.... i used to force femininity, it worsed my body image and i made myself very unwell...
                but dressing in a more androgynous way helped.
                has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? i want to dress the way i shoul deap down, im a girl. but it doesn't feel right. not at all.... i just hate it... i dont vent on here a lot, but i think maybe people here might understand?

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                @Yanderemenhera personally it took years to find the word that fits me . Exploring your gender is ultimately a life long journey so just go with anything that makes you feel good at whatever stage in life you're in. Your words are enby-coded and its such a broad label all sorts of people with different gender expressions fall under it,just take it easy you dont have to name it now and explore things that make you feel good

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                • Yanderemenheraundefined Offline
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                  #8

                  ah

                  wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
                  hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
                  my new grounds account is called phroggered
                  look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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                  • Yanderemenheraundefined Yanderemenhera

                    i dont wanna be a girl. i dont wannabe a boy.... i dressed in a skirt today and i felt something.....
                    it was emotionally unpleasant.... idk what it was. has anyone else experienced this?.... i used to force femininity, it worsed my body image and i made myself very unwell...
                    but dressing in a more androgynous way helped.
                    has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? i want to dress the way i shoul deap down, im a girl. but it doesn't feel right. not at all.... i just hate it... i dont vent on here a lot, but i think maybe people here might understand?

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                    @Yanderemenhera You could be nonbinary. I think this is your journey to go on, listen to what you want because at the end of the day you have to think of what makes you the happiest. I'm no expert in gender but if you're not feeling happy then something's gotta change. I hope you feel better soon :3

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                    • Yanderemenheraundefined Yanderemenhera

                      i dont wanna be a girl. i dont wannabe a boy.... i dressed in a skirt today and i felt something.....
                      it was emotionally unpleasant.... idk what it was. has anyone else experienced this?.... i used to force femininity, it worsed my body image and i made myself very unwell...
                      but dressing in a more androgynous way helped.
                      has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? i want to dress the way i shoul deap down, im a girl. but it doesn't feel right. not at all.... i just hate it... i dont vent on here a lot, but i think maybe people here might understand?

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                      A Former User
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                      @Yanderemenhera Nope Never Felt Like That Hope You Get Better Soon,

                      I'm Always Up To DM.

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                      • Yanderemenheraundefined Offline
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                        Public Relations Senior Staff canida πŸ₯€ πŸ˜­πŸ™
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                        #11

                        ok

                        wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
                        hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
                        my new grounds account is called phroggered
                        look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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                          thank you guys

                          wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
                          hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
                          my new grounds account is called phroggered
                          look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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                            Yw

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                              Even Though I Did Absolutely Nothing

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