gender.... (vent)

[Yanderemenhera]

i dont wanna be a girl. i dont wannabe a boy.... i dressed in a skirt today and i felt something.....
it was emotionally unpleasant.... idk what it was. has anyone else experienced this?.... i used to force femininity, it worsed my body image and i made myself very unwell...
but dressing in a more androgynous way helped.
has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? i want to dress the way i shoul deap down, im a girl. but it doesn't feel right. not at all.... i just hate it... i dont vent on here a lot, but i think maybe people here might understand?

[pawthetic]

then in my book, i dont think your a girl if it feels wrong

[Apollo.Is.Silly]

Lwk kinda relateable.. I've felt like this before and i know its hard to feel like this and especially hard on your mental health and self-esteem.

If dressing androgynous makes you feel better, then do it! Nobody is stopping you. If you don't feel like a boy or girl, maybe you're nonbinary(?)

[Yanderemenhera]

yeah..

[pawthetic]

id say this is very enby coded, but you choose what label you like :3

[Yanderemenhera]

emby... maybe

[Woof26]

@Yanderemenhera personally it took years to find the word that fits me . Exploring your gender is ultimately a life long journey so just go with anything that makes you feel good at whatever stage in life you're in. Your words are enby-coded and its such a broad label all sorts of people with different gender expressions fall under it,just take it easy you dont have to name it now and explore things that make you feel good

[Yanderemenhera]

ah

[YourAriesBestie]

@Yanderemenhera You could be nonbinary. I think this is your journey to go on, listen to what you want because at the end of the day you have to think of what makes you the happiest. I'm no expert in gender but if you're not feeling happy then something's gotta change. I hope you feel better soon :3

[A Former User]

@Yanderemenhera Nope Never Felt Like That Hope You Get Better Soon,

I'm Always Up To DM.

[Yanderemenhera]

ok

[Yanderemenhera]

thank you guys

[A Former User]

Yw

[A Former User]

Even Though I Did Absolutely Nothing