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  • NightmareWolfieN NightmareWolfie

    I mean- I personally don't understand the thought process of losing the feeling of attachment and staying together- I wouldn't consider the PFP stuff too bad, I mean, it's a PFP, c'mon. But at the same time I feel like if you're dating more for the relationship than the partner, then a relationship shouldn't exist, although I could be misunderstanding the situation due to the tone of the post in general being negative and discussing your partner.

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    @NightmareWolfie I date him for him. I study his activities (not to a personal level but I can make interpretations). He felt off today, and I don't know. I lashed out. I don't know what to say to him. He's probably still ignoring me.

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      @NightmareWolfie I date him for him. I study his activities (not to a personal level but I can make interpretations). He felt off today, and I don't know. I lashed out. I don't know what to say to him. He's probably still ignoring me.

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      @soleil Well in the end a person is a person- Far too complex for you or anyone else to have down completely, and if he didn't act his usual then my first guess would be you picked a bad time- I'd suggest you work on keeping composure during times like this as lashing out when he may need space will only lead to arguments or perhaps more

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      • NightmareWolfieN NightmareWolfie

        @soleil Well in the end a person is a person- Far too complex for you or anyone else to have down completely, and if he didn't act his usual then my first guess would be you picked a bad time- I'd suggest you work on keeping composure during times like this as lashing out when he may need space will only lead to arguments or perhaps more

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        @NightmareWolfie Thank you Wolfie if I may call. I told him that we can settle in DMs if it helps.

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          @NightmareWolfie Thank you Wolfie if I may call. I told him that we can settle in DMs if it helps.

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          @soleil Good idea, now just be patient ;3 Also yeah, I'm Wolfie

          Evah! >:3

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          • NightmareWolfieN NightmareWolfie

            @soleil Good idea, now just be patient ;3 Also yeah, I'm Wolfie

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            @NightmareWolfie Thank you, again, Wolfie.
            🫂

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              personally I think its about attachment styles sort of or how you perceive things and feel from inside I struggle with relationships due to fact sometimes I split over a small thing and it makes me view them negatively so I kinda related to this but communicating is always good because no one can read your mind

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              • derpygroovesD derpygrooves

                personally I think its about attachment styles sort of or how you perceive things and feel from inside I struggle with relationships due to fact sometimes I split over a small thing and it makes me view them negatively so I kinda related to this but communicating is always good because no one can read your mind

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                @flutterfluff True. I have complex attachment issues from a few toxic relationships.

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                  @flutterfluff True. I have complex attachment issues from a few toxic relationships.

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                  @soleil as anyone should toxic relationships can make you not trust people as easily specially when being triggered by thing that reminds you of a time when you were inside of that relationship I'm also very keen on like being able to tell when a person is off because I get very emotionally aware to when I'm close with or even if I can't understand the tone of a person I don't know it either makes me wanna lash out or get upset

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                  • derpygroovesD derpygrooves

                    @soleil as anyone should toxic relationships can make you not trust people as easily specially when being triggered by thing that reminds you of a time when you were inside of that relationship I'm also very keen on like being able to tell when a person is off because I get very emotionally aware to when I'm close with or even if I can't understand the tone of a person I don't know it either makes me wanna lash out or get upset

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                    @flutterfluff You are similar to me.

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                      @flutterfluff You are similar to me.

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                      @soleil its probably because we both are neurodivergent with a bit of similarity in experiences

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                      • derpygroovesD derpygrooves

                        @soleil its probably because we both are neurodivergent with a bit of similarity in experiences

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                        @flutterfluff That is cool.

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                          @flutterfluff That is cool.

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                          @soleil I don't know why but I'm sort of good at reading people or situations not always though but usually I'm close but reading neurotypical people is much more difficult for me as I just feel really different from most people I'm a bit better at understanding people who are sort of like me in a way

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                          • derpygroovesD derpygrooves

                            @soleil I don't know why but I'm sort of good at reading people or situations not always though but usually I'm close but reading neurotypical people is much more difficult for me as I just feel really different from most people I'm a bit better at understanding people who are sort of like me in a way

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                            @flutterfluff I can read, but I can't speak my mind.

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                              I always try to pay attention to tone its way harder in text and somtimes just the way a text sounds in my head can entirely misinterpret something

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                              muffins!

                              "for I know the plans I have for you declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not for evil, but welfare, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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                                @flutterfluff I can read, but I can't speak my mind.

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                                @soleil this is so real

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                                  or sometimes I just act on emotions rather than logical thinking

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                                  muffins!

                                  "for I know the plans I have for you declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not for evil, but welfare, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11

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                                    My mind is always so quick to act on emotions rather then logical thinking

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                                    • derpygroovesD derpygrooves

                                      or sometimes I just act on emotions rather than logical thinking

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                                      @flutterfluff That is true for me.

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                                        i agree with the part when you say souldrivenluv doesnt deserve any money

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                                          uhhh idk man, just wait and settle it out on dm's

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