So my valentine lowk sucked
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My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys
@cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:
> My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guysturn that misery into art, that's what I do sometimes
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My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys
@cv7mp im sorry abt that if he does that to you then he dosent deserve you bc ur to good and amazing and you put love into it and he didnt care u need some one who is going to treat you right
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My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys
@cv7mp I understand him not reacting depending on the guy but if you're positive he didn't even look at the note then I believe you shouldn't be with someone like that
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nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.
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My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys
@cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable
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@cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable
@NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.
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nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.
@Kam Don't be sexist >:C
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@cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:
@Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy
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you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better
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@cv7mp I understand him not reacting depending on the guy but if you're positive he didn't even look at the note then I believe you shouldn't be with someone like that
@BritishUnity truee
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@cv7mp im sorry abt that if he does that to you then he dosent deserve you bc ur to good and amazing and you put love into it and he didnt care u need some one who is going to treat you right
@lily.love4390 awh thank you, idk if he'll look at the note he fr ignored me in the hallway
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@NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again
@cv7mp Just be patient, if it can't blow over, worst case scenario you just focus on yourself B3
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@cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:
@Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy
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you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better
@Kam i lowk might try women if we do breakup
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A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.β ββπ€β ββ
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A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.
@Araghie ill try to when i can
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@athea thank u athea
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