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  • cv7mpundefined cv7mp

    My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys

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    @cv7mp I understand him not reacting depending on the guy but if you're positive he didn't even look at the note then I believe you shouldn't be with someone like that

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      nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.

      Hey, feel free to read my blog.
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      • cv7mpundefined cv7mp

        My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys

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        @cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable

        Evah! >:3

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          Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

          "Mad drippy, hella trippy"

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            @cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable

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            @NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again

            𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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            • Kamundefined Kam

              Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

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              @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

              𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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              • Faustundefined Faust

                nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.

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                @Faust maybe, i might just give it some time because i have jealousy issues as well but yk

                𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                • Kamundefined Kam

                  Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

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                  @Kam Don't be sexist >:C

                  Evah! >:3

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                  • cv7mpundefined cv7mp

                    @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

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                    @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:

                    @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

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                    you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better

                    "Mad drippy, hella trippy"

                    SB-1110-8815-0652

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                    • BritishUnityundefined BritishUnity

                      @cv7mp I understand him not reacting depending on the guy but if you're positive he didn't even look at the note then I believe you shouldn't be with someone like that

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                      @BritishUnity truee

                      𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                      • lily.love4390undefined lily.love4390

                        @cv7mp im sorry abt that if he does that to you then he dosent deserve you bc ur to good and amazing and you put love into it and he didnt care u need some one who is going to treat you right

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                        @lily.love4390 awh thank you, idk if he'll look at the note he fr ignored me in the hallway

                        𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                        • cv7mpundefined cv7mp

                          @NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again

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                          @cv7mp Just be patient, if it can't blow over, worst case scenario you just focus on yourself B3

                          Evah! >:3

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                          • Kamundefined Kam

                            @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:

                            @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

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                            you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better

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                            @Kam i lowk might try women if we do breakup

                            𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                              A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
                              You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.

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                              • Araghieundefined Araghie

                                A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
                                You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.

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                                @Araghie ill try to when i can

                                𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                                  @athea thank u athea

                                  𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                                  • cv7mpundefined cv7mp

                                    @Faust maybe, i might just give it some time because i have jealousy issues as well but yk

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                                    @cv7mp good luck, you got this and we're here for you

                                    Hey, feel free to read my blog.
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                                      @cv7mp good luck, you got this and we're here for you

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                                      @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

                                      𝑾̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅ 𝒕̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒆̲̅ 𝒊̲̅𝒏̲̅𝒌̲̅ 𝑰̲̅ 𝒔̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒘̲̅, 𝑰̲̅ 𝒄̲̅𝒂̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒓̲̅𝒚̲̅ 𝒚̲̅𝒐̲̅𝒖̲̅𝒓̲̅ 𝒘̲̅𝒆̲̅𝒊̲̅𝒈̲̅𝒉̲̅𝒕̲̅.

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                                        @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

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                                        @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:
                                        > @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

                                        blyahhh you can choose me tho twin 🤑 /j

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                                          @lily.love4390 awh thank you, idk if he'll look at the note he fr ignored me in the hallway

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                                          hope you find some one better

                                          im a Sagittarius fire sign Jupiter!!!!!

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