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  • Faust
    Faust
    Faust
    PM Taken 𖦹 OT12
    wrote on last edited by
    #5

    nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.

    Hey, feel free to read my blog.
    Minor || It/Name || EN/ZH/FR 🆗
    please don't use you/yours

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    • cv7mp cv7mp

      My current bf is my valentine right? he got me jewelry yesterday and I really loved it, I cant really top it due to my living situation. I wrote him a long note about why I love him and got him a ring and made him a glow in the dark star but he didn't react or even read the note and went off with his friends. I'm thinking abt leaving him but my obsession is die-hard for him. I've been DEAD inside all day already so idrk what to do. I try my best to be positive but I just can't rn guys

      A Former User?
      A Former User?
      A Former User
      wrote on last edited by [[global:former-user]]
      #6

      @cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable

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      • Kam
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        Kam
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        #7

        Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

        "Mad drippy, hella trippy"

        They/Them

        SB-1110-8815-0652

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        • A Former User? A Former User

          @cv7mp Say, pal, if ya need someone to talk to about this kinda stuff I WILL put the offer on the table. As for advice on the situation, have you talked with him about it? What lot of people overlook is that he may not have INTENDED to hurt your feelings y'know? Also, I'd work on the obsession problem as that can be taxing on ANY relationship and is bad for your mental health as well- If you are feeling detached or hurt then you should vocalize the issues before you consider breaking up. Only situation I can think of where ya wouldn't do that is if you don't have feelings or if it's abusive. I cannot take a side without seeing both, this problem seems salvageable

          cv7mp
          cv7mp
          cv7mp
          Lee cane to ass
          wrote on last edited by
          #8

          @NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again

          Despite everything, it's still you.

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          • Kam Kam

            Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

            cv7mp
            cv7mp
            cv7mp
            Lee cane to ass
            wrote on last edited by
            #9

            @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

            Despite everything, it's still you.

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            • Faust Faust

              nicest but most straightforward way possible: wake up and break up. not in an unneeded hatred but if you're sure this guy just ditched you without looking at how much you love him truly then you should leave.

              cv7mp
              cv7mp
              cv7mp
              Lee cane to ass
              wrote on last edited by
              #10

              @Faust maybe, i might just give it some time because i have jealousy issues as well but yk

              Despite everything, it's still you.

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              • Kam Kam

                Correct me if I'm wrong, but the only reason you want to leave him is because he didn't read the note? idk if he's nice to you is that really necessary? Also it's possible he went off with his friends without really intending to be hurtful, guys r lowk kinda stupid like that.

                A Former User?
                A Former User?
                A Former User
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                #11

                @Kam Don't be sexist >:C

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                • cv7mp cv7mp

                  @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

                  Kam
                  Kam
                  Kam
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                  wrote on last edited by
                  #12

                  @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:

                  @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

                  0

                  you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better

                  "Mad drippy, hella trippy"

                  They/Them

                  SB-1110-8815-0652

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                  • BritishUnity BritishUnity

                    @cv7mp I understand him not reacting depending on the guy but if you're positive he didn't even look at the note then I believe you shouldn't be with someone like that

                    cv7mp
                    cv7mp
                    cv7mp
                    Lee cane to ass
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #13

                    @BritishUnity truee

                    Despite everything, it's still you.

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                    • lily.love4390 lily.love4390

                      @cv7mp im sorry abt that if he does that to you then he dosent deserve you bc ur to good and amazing and you put love into it and he didnt care u need some one who is going to treat you right

                      cv7mp
                      cv7mp
                      cv7mp
                      Lee cane to ass
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #14

                      @lily.love4390 awh thank you, idk if he'll look at the note he fr ignored me in the hallway

                      Despite everything, it's still you.

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                      • cv7mp cv7mp

                        @NightmareWolfie i hope it is man, it just hurt a lot and itll be a while before i can talk to him again

                        A Former User?
                        A Former User?
                        A Former User
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #15

                        @cv7mp Just be patient, if it can't blow over, worst case scenario you just focus on yourself B3

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                        • Kam Kam

                          @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:

                          @Kam he shouldnt have an exception just because hes a guy

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                          you're entirely right, I'm just saying that if you break up with him-get w someone else its not gonna be better

                          cv7mp
                          cv7mp
                          cv7mp
                          Lee cane to ass
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #16

                          @Kam i lowk might try women if we do breakup

                          Despite everything, it's still you.

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                          • Araghie
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                            #17

                            A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
                            You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.

                            ⋅⋆─𖤓─ ⋆⋅

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                            • Araghie Araghie

                              A lot of people have been saying what I was already going to say, so I guess I'll throw my two cents in even if it's similar to a few other suggestions,
                              You should probably communicate your perspective to your significant other. Communication is and always will be key in any relationship, including a romantic one. But the fact that your SO didn't read the note at all is a bit alarming- nevertheless you should talk your feelings out and see how things go.

                              cv7mp
                              cv7mp
                              cv7mp
                              Lee cane to ass
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #18

                              @Araghie ill try to when i can

                              Despite everything, it's still you.

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                              • cv7mp
                                cv7mp
                                cv7mp
                                Lee cane to ass
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                                #19

                                @athea thank u athea

                                Despite everything, it's still you.

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                                • cv7mp cv7mp

                                  @Faust maybe, i might just give it some time because i have jealousy issues as well but yk

                                  Faust
                                  Faust
                                  Faust
                                  PM Taken 𖦹 OT12
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #20

                                  @cv7mp good luck, you got this and we're here for you

                                  Hey, feel free to read my blog.
                                  Minor || It/Name || EN/ZH/FR 🆗
                                  please don't use you/yours

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                                  • Faust Faust

                                    @cv7mp good luck, you got this and we're here for you

                                    cv7mp
                                    cv7mp
                                    cv7mp
                                    Lee cane to ass
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #21

                                    @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

                                    Despite everything, it's still you.

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                                    • cv7mp cv7mp

                                      @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

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                                      #22

                                      @cv7mp said in So my valentine lowk sucked:
                                      > @Faust thank youu, yall are so nice <3

                                      blyahhh you can choose me tho twin 🤑 /j

                                      

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                                      • cv7mp cv7mp

                                        @lily.love4390 awh thank you, idk if he'll look at the note he fr ignored me in the hallway

                                        lily.love4390
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                                        hope you find some one better

                                        im a Sagittarius fire sign Jupiter!!!!!

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                                        • lily.love4390 lily.love4390

                                          hope you find some one better

                                          cv7mp
                                          cv7mp
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                                          Lee cane to ass
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                                          #24

                                          @lily.love4390 tytyy

                                          Despite everything, it's still you.

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