body reveal + showing vanity sizing and normal sizing on someone who's a lil top heavy

[KiwiFarmsArkavel]

@vessel said in body reveal + showing vanity sizing and normal sizing on someone who's a lil top heavy:

@KiwiFarmsArkavel popular topics are great right?

(Yeah but if it's related to body weight and allat, I'm just a little worried that it'll eventually spiral into eating disorders)

[Yanderemenhera]

yeah, I intended this topic to help people figure out what size to buy for unisex, women's, and men's tops and stuff, i'd really rather not encourage that sort of thing. like seriously.

if you're struggling, please, reach out to someone, I understand most people here don't have access to actual help, like irl, but I will have a few links here for you to try once you get access to like, a school Chromebook.

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24/7 eating disorder support chat with therapists
https://alsana.com

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more online help:
https://anad.org/get-help/eatingdisorders-helpline/

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not free but virtual care for ages up to 24 that supposedly accepts medicade

https://equip.health/

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a support line a therapist reccomended, text only I believe: 601-348-5683
(I was automatically connected with a therapist when I visited a site and explained that I was looking for support links for a forum site, they gave me a bunch of links)

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unfortunately, I doubt any of this will work on switch so uhh please don't smite me, i'm very sorry. this was kinda rushed and took a bit to research

[Ang3l]

@KiwiFarmsArkavel my mom core
(She dont have one lolll)

[Ang3l]

@Yanderemenhera
Do these act. Work ive never used them
Also isnt dumping on strangers a one way ticket to make their day shitty ?
(Unlike me it does NOT make my day worse please dump your problems onto me please )

[Yanderemenhera]

@vessel no, I just wanted to put that here as a disclaimer and have some stuff for people to use because I do worry about this derailing into things that aren't even allowed on here but still end up on the forum, and i'd rather not get my topic locked because someone started derailing and they didn't even have like, support.
also, yes i'd assume they'd all work, https://alsana.com ran fine on my Chromebook, if you need it please use it.
and no, i'm not dumping, it's literally just me giving links to a post that might be triggering or some people might post triggering replies to.
I'm alright, i'm literally medically overweight lol so there's nothing wrong with me and i'm doing very good in my personal life but I do think you for your offer

[Ang3l]

@Yanderemenhera 1. Alr kool
2. You are NOT dumping, like uhhh the ideal of "vent hotlines" is
Uhhmmm idontunderstand the last but but

[seal]

@vessel misogyny

[w1ckedsticky1983]

@vessel what does this even mean. Like, are you saying that everyone should just wear masc clothes? 'Guy' clothes are tailored to men and their structures, obviously, they wouldn't be flattering on most fem presenting women and their body types. Unless you mean 'just wear baggy clothes,' but even then; that's not every1's style

[Yanderemenhera]

@w1ckedsticky1983 i've considered selling skirts designed to fit men and they'd be sized like men's pants since men generally have a more "boxy" shape then women and skirts don't fit them very well not to mention height.

I understand why men and women have their own clothing, I really do and I don't think men and women having their own separate clothes is necceraly bad, or like, inherently mysogonest, but I think women's clothes usually get the worst of things like vanity sizing or not having pokets because they assume we all use purses, ect. I don't think everyone buying dudes clothes is the solution either.

(I mostly wear men's clothes tbf because I like them more and since i'm basically the height of a grown αss man I find them to have a better fit)

I think the best we as a society can do is like, make it not tabbo to wear clothes intended for the oppeset gender, like if a dude want's a dress, let him be happy, and if a chick wants to wear a pair of dude's cargo shorts, let her be happy.

but that's my two cents lol

[Ang3l]

@w1ckedsticky1983 no the sizing is diffrent for EVEERYYYY company