I need legit responses and answers.

[Shockrat]

Soooo, what do I do if I have a girlfriend and I have a crush on soeone else, but I don't wanna break up with my girlfriend, and i'm sure as hell not gonna cheat? Because, genuinely it's a problem I'm having. I think the other girl also likes me back, but at this point i just don't know what to do. Please help!!

[macncheese.]

if u love ur gf and u care for her, i reccomend to stay with her
js dont have a crush ig....

[_Izzy_]

well talk to her abt it??? if shes ok with a open relationship or you liking other ppl then ur good, if not break up bc then its cheating and thats not fair to your girlfriend if the one she loves is focused on someone else!

and if you dont feel comfortable being honest with her then break up bc clearly the relationship isnt gonna work if your too afraid to communicate

[Lil_sillyz]

Tell her gng

[-x-playdead-x-]

just break up with her, your relationship clearly isnt gonna last if you have romantic feelings for someone else and cant communicate. youre wasting her time

[Ang3l]

wait for it to fade. lowkey in the same boat w/ my ex actually being alive & not breaking up with me lol

[Luana.vasper]

Perhaps ur polyamorous? I think after some careful consideration, you should try to have a respectful chat with her about it if that's the case.

[Shockrat]

@_Izzy_ well, i'm not "focused" on her. I hve stronger feeling for my gf, whixh is why i don't want to break up with her, it 's just conflicting for me, because it still feels wrong, I just can't really do much to change feelings.

[_Izzy_]

@Shockrat if its bugging u enough to post abt it its important enough to be a actual convo between you and your gf:/ u could also just stay away from the other girl, u cant control how you feel but you can control her actions and should just not interact with her so u can focus on ur gf, ESPECIALLY if you think she likes you back, just dont even entertain her feelings for u bc then ur cheating