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Anyone else regret and completely hyperfocus on any social mistake they make?

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  • UnpaidIntern
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    title, like randomly getting mad at something that didn't matter or accidentally saying something completely unhinged. Like i'd feel a lot better if I could reverse time and just literally not say that

    deltarune tomorrow

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    • UnpaidIntern UnpaidIntern

      title, like randomly getting mad at something that didn't matter or accidentally saying something completely unhinged. Like i'd feel a lot better if I could reverse time and just literally not say that

      ScaryLikeTarmac
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      @UnpaidIntern I do in a way keep a score sheet in my head and try to say what the other person wants to hear, and if they react well I celebrate, but if they don't I wish I would have never spoke. its mentally exhausting and no conversation feels genuine

      It's da SPOOKY MONTH
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      OCTOBER BELONGS TO SKID AND PUMP

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      • UnpaidIntern
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        #3

        one time I randomly said "I love drinking yellow liquid" as a joke while drinking orange juice (but like the ones that look yellow) and I still regret it to this day (i think that was like a week ago).

        deltarune tomorrow

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        • UnpaidIntern UnpaidIntern

          one time I randomly said "I love drinking yellow liquid" as a joke while drinking orange juice (but like the ones that look yellow) and I still regret it to this day (i think that was like a week ago).

          ScaryLikeTarmac
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          @UnpaidIntern with my humor, if someone said that around me i'd just think it's really funny

          It's da SPOOKY MONTH
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          OCTOBER BELONGS TO SKID AND PUMP

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          • ScaryLikeTarmac ScaryLikeTarmac

            @UnpaidIntern I do in a way keep a score sheet in my head and try to say what the other person wants to hear, and if they react well I celebrate, but if they don't I wish I would have never spoke. its mentally exhausting and no conversation feels genuine

            UnpaidIntern
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            former staff Switchbru ##adhd deltarune BANNED
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            @SweetLikeTarmac yeah like that, but with the difference of not really aiming for what the other person wants to hear and more like the best thing to say in that moment

            deltarune tomorrow

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            • st4tic
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              all the time <//3 for example i get actually mad at getting called a LOT of shit even as a joke, or just not getting results i expected. it's genuinely exhausting.

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                all the time <//3 for example i get actually mad at getting called a LOT of shit even as a joke, or just not getting results i expected. it's genuinely exhausting.

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                what a wonderful site 🌹

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                @st4tic Yes I had that same thing go on with me

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                • ScaryLikeTarmac ScaryLikeTarmac

                  @UnpaidIntern I do in a way keep a score sheet in my head and try to say what the other person wants to hear, and if they react well I celebrate, but if they don't I wish I would have never spoke. its mentally exhausting and no conversation feels genuine

                  UnpaidIntern
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                  #8

                  @SweetLikeTarmac i'm trying to think of a word for "people-pleaser" that doesn't have a negative connotation (i hope I used the word connotation right) to describe like when someone just says what the other person wants to hear instead of what they actually want to say. I notice it all the time when interacting with some users on this website, but I can't say when they're doing it without it sounding like I just called them a slur.

                  deltarune tomorrow

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                    @SweetLikeTarmac i'm trying to think of a word for "people-pleaser" that doesn't have a negative connotation (i hope I used the word connotation right) to describe like when someone just says what the other person wants to hear instead of what they actually want to say. I notice it all the time when interacting with some users on this website, but I can't say when they're doing it without it sounding like I just called them a slur.

                    ScaryLikeTarmac
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                    wrote last edited by ScaryLikeTarmac
                    #9

                    @UnpaidIntern nah, I am a people pleaser. you'd be too, if you were raised the way I was/am ✌🫡

                    It's da SPOOKY MONTH
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                    OCTOBER BELONGS TO SKID AND PUMP

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                    • ScaryLikeTarmac ScaryLikeTarmac

                      @UnpaidIntern nah, I am a people pleaser. you'd be too, if you were raised the way I was/am ✌🫡

                      UnpaidIntern
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                      former staff Switchbru ##adhd deltarune BANNED
                      wrote last edited by UnpaidIntern
                      #10

                      @SweetLikeTarmac i actually kind of am being raised like that, but I only do that with my mom because she forces me to, like physically. I'm never speaking to her again after 18.

                      deltarune tomorrow

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