What would you do?

[Enchanted]

@YourAriesBestie one way ive been able to figure out who my friends are in life is to slowy distance myself not in a rude way but quietly and depending on how the person responds and acts to that lets me know also i evaluate our relationship like i know im a good friend but have they been a good friend to me? i know i try to help them but have they done the same for me? i respect their boundaries do they respect mine? i dont make fun of them and if i do its in a loving way but if they tell me they dont like it or to stop i immediately do without hesitation have they acted the same with me? friendship are tough and it hurts to realize a person you really like lot and realllyyyy wanna be friends with just isnt your person they will soon just be somebody that you used to know (yes i slippped that in their lemme cook )

[[[global:former-user]]]

@Enchanted but you didn't have to cut me offfff, Well Tomorrow I might Confront the group depending on how brave i'm feeling. I'll update you

[Enchanted]

try to insert yourself in some new groups take a week to just find new people talk to a student you've seen around before but never said anything too or join a new class at your school if you can and just see who's out there :) this can also be done outside of school may be eaiser since they will be your age, but there are friends to be made everywhere in the most unlikely places like a grocery store or the movie theater

[Enchanted]

@YourAriesBestie make out like it never happened and that we were nothing and i dont even need your love but you treat me like a stranger and it feels so roughhhhhhhh

[Enchanted]

@YourAriesBestie hope all goes well and be brave stand your ground stand firm but not rude be respectful and understanding to everyones feelings and they should be the same with you have a mature conversation yall are teens after all good luck <3

[Thattallyhallfan]

Id say to tell her this. "Hey,What you said yesterday was wrong. Im not into them. I didnt like you doing that.

[Forsaknbe]

@YourAriesBestie nah thats ntn my friend group is wierd asf the things they say i cant even say on here and they pick on this one short friend and the short jokes are horendous like its kinda sad and they dont include peoole in what they play sometimes even friends the excuse is either theres too many people, or we dont have enough space for (number) people. imma just stop being friends with them at this point

[Almond]

Why is that looked down upon

[[[global:former-user]]]

@Almond well, when I was becoming visibly distressed about it they didn't care and still continued to tell me it was true. I don't know about other friendships but I think that you shouldn't just be sitting there and making them feel like that. Oh you meant the y8 and y7 thing, well there's been times with other pupils where this has happened and people have called the y8 a pedophile and bullied them relentlessly. Me personally I don't see anything wrong with it. I mean its only one year difference.

[w1ckedsticky1983]

@YourAriesBestie Well i mean, the pdf file thing is just a joke at my school. Every1 calls ppl dating sm1 a year younger than them does-heck even i call my talking stage a pedo (but like-as a joke) If your school is actually bullying someone for that...thats js...wow. Theyre just jealous they cant pull /j (also, sorry im not in the convo-i js had to say this mb )

[[[global:former-user]]]

@YourAriesBestie I HATE YOU GO FALL IN A DITCH [censored], Is Something Reasonable But You Can't Work With It (No Sad Now)

[[[global:former-user]]]

No But Fr I Think You Should Just Tell Her It Wasn't Very Funny And You Took It Serious

[[[global:former-user]]]

@KG3M0 Wow, imma go cry now :'3

[Enchanted]

@Sparkl3Ra1nbo0mz ummm????? how is that even being a pedoooooo??!!?!!

[Enchanted]

@waterbottl they sound like a group of bullies its good your leaveing take the short friend with you please

[w1ckedsticky1983]

@Enchanted bc theyre older than the person theyre dating :3

[Enchanted]

@Sparkl3Ra1nbo0mz how much older?

[w1ckedsticky1983]

@Enchanted depends, the guy im talking to is only a year older, so it not that bad

[Forsaknbe]

@Enchanted its a short joke :-: bc its pretty wierd to date a 2nd grader in middle school so it would be considered pedo behavior and ur usualy taller the older u are she was close to his height hes 4 10 btw

[Enchanted]

@waterbottl thanks i was lost