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a vent i guess.? i need some advice.

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    so theres this person ive been talking on and off with for 2 years and its a constant cycle, and its starting to really affect me. so we talk for a few months, i get attached, they leave and it really hurts me. then they come back and the cycle repeats. and it sucks should i just cut them off for good.? because its really affecting me and i already deal with mental health issues.

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      i’d say to cut them off permanently,even if its hard in the moment it’ll do wonders for you in the long run

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        the description is vague but from what you said it sounds like the relationship is doing more harm then good, id suggest cutting them off:P

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        • magootysaltundefined magootysalt

          so theres this person ive been talking on and off with for 2 years and its a constant cycle, and its starting to really affect me. so we talk for a few months, i get attached, they leave and it really hurts me. then they come back and the cycle repeats. and it sucks should i just cut them off for good.? because its really affecting me and i already deal with mental health issues.

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          @magootyforgotpas as everyone else is saying (repetitive, ik) but you should def cut them off!!!!! >:3c

          May the spawn damn those sinfull heretics who spread hate!

          Jax . they/them (< plz use!!!!)

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            ik what this is like, from my experience, i'd say when they leave again, block them on EVERYTHING and don't let them worm there way back into your life, the longer you let the cycle continue it is harder to break. try to move on, eve though it hurts, even though ''maybe they'll change one day'' its not fucking worth it. just let it die b4 its too late to kill off

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            • Yanderemenheraundefined Yanderemenhera

              ik what this is like, from my experience, i'd say when they leave again, block them on EVERYTHING and don't let them worm there way back into your life, the longer you let the cycle continue it is harder to break. try to move on, eve though it hurts, even though ''maybe they'll change one day'' its not fucking worth it. just let it die b4 its too late to kill off

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              @Yanderemenhera alright i appreciate the advice ill try to just forget about them and not respond

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              • Yanderemenheraundefined Yanderemenhera

                ik what this is like, from my experience, i'd say when they leave again, block them on EVERYTHING and don't let them worm there way back into your life, the longer you let the cycle continue it is harder to break. try to move on, eve though it hurts, even though ''maybe they'll change one day'' its not fucking worth it. just let it die b4 its too late to kill off

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                @wilford-bremly they left on the 28th and i cried sm i almost passed out but im starting to get over it partially my mood is still really shitty

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                • magootysaltundefined magootysalt

                  @wilford-bremly they left on the 28th and i cried sm i almost passed out but im starting to get over it partially my mood is still really shitty

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                  @magootyforgotpas it's gonna be ok 💛

                  wilford bremly, sep, 27th 1934 to Aug, 1st, 2020
                  hit me up on discord, my username is wilfordbremly and I will talk to you 'bout daibetus
                  my new grounds account is called phroggered
                  look at dat to see ''exclusive'' content or whatever. YouTube is far too toxic for me tbh.

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