If a woman can hit a man, why cant a man hit a women?

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@Zagamier alr gang you makin me look bad

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I wasn't trying to.

thebignyx

@Zagamier I agree with this.

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@Zagamier ik but still.

xenth

@Zagamier true, but personally this is my belief too, personally (IN MY VIEW) we should be equal, even though equality can never be achived (as its an absolute) it can never be fully achived, the world had turned to a point where we belive that this and that are diffrent things when in reality history has all shamed us, we belived 5 yrs ago "wemon are weak" now we have "men are weak" but why cant it be "we are both here and strong", and there are actually men who struggle do to blackmail or other factors, though zagamier is right, this shouldnt be a factor at all, domestic abuse is something serious, aswell as any altercation, in short: we are equal, we are people, we should be equal, wemon and men shouldnt treat eachother badly at all

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@xenth Self-defense is allowed. (In control and moderation, only to disarm)

xenth

@Zagamier yeah, i view that right.

xenth

if anyone has a weapon or harms the other, self-defence shouldnt be frowned on

Aries

I think it's down to what's happened in the past. Historically it's been considered a normal practice to hit your wife, girlfriend, daughter etc. Since the suffragette movement however, it's changed significantly. I think they thought that if I woman hit a man that she'd be weak and it'd be okay. Since then i'd say we've evolved and we're taught that it's not okay to hit anybody. Unless in obvious circumstances like self defence or boxing

xenth

@Aries support, i agree. i think your view was great on this, we have become better since the past, and i think really we should have ordinances or laws to protect eachother, aswell as help defend agianst blackmail and abuse, this will be my last post in this topic, as its very contraversial.

mindy27

men should never hit a women because they could go to jail and because God does not want us to because it is a sin

StarryPeach

its bc a man could best a girls [censored] then she becomes a man hater but i think guys should hit girls also

thebignyx

@StarryPeach What?

mindy27

@StarryPeach huh?

StarryPeach

@thebignyx trust me. both of my grandmas are that way...and they told methat so idk...

thebignyx

@StarryPeach Nobody should be able to hit anyone. It is morally wrong.

Yanderemenhera

I think if someone is jumping you, it does not matter if they are male, female, nonbinary or a zenogender that uses toaster/toasterself pronouns. I live down south and I have met men that wouldn't hit a woman if their life was on the line. I feel like we shouldn't hit, we learn that as toddlers, but if some woman has a weapon and is threating your life or someone elses, idgaf if "she's weak" or "it's not fair" hit dat woman and do whatever you need to, it doesn't matter in this context vro 🥀

mindy27

@Yanderemenhera thats a good explanation

Yanderemenhera

@mindy27 hitting a woman in a domestic abuse context? BAD, VERY VERY BAD*
in self defense or defense of someone else? PLEASE DO.

StarryPeach

valid