Name crisis
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Okay so I like never post on here but i desperately need advice.
I go by Mike as a trans guy, right? I’ve been going by Mike for like 3 years now and it’s what my boyfriend knows me as. But recently I’ve been feeling repulsive towards the name and it makes me like feel weird. I’ve been thinking about going by a different name, but I don’t know what I should go by.
But I don’t want to change my name after such a long time because that’s like really confusing. But I also don’t want to feel uncomfortable in my identity, ykwim?
Help me TvT
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pick something else if you dont like it
as long as its not something stupid idcbut like ik its probably hard because its obviously been a long while
♥ But it refused.
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pick something else if you dont like it
as long as its not something stupid idcbut like ik its probably hard because its obviously been a long while
@tyler_x idk what sounds stupid and what doesn’t I’m like hella out of the loop I’m gonna google it 🥹
It’s gonna be hard tho because like I assosciate this name with myself everywhere and I don’t want to be forgotten yk
𝘏𝘦𝘺! 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯!
αωω мαη, му ƒυ¢кιηg נαуѕ!!
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴋᴇᴘᴛ ᴏɴ sᴘɪɴɴɪɴɢ.
𝘐'𝘝𝘌 𝘎𝘖𝘛 𝘉𝘓𝘐𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘙𝘚 𝘖𝘕 𝘔𝘌 𝘍𝘐𝘕𝘎𝘌𝘙𝘚!!
HYAHH!!Babe the residents are residenting evilly again
₍ᐢ⑅•ᴗ•⑅ᐢ₎♡
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@tyler_x idk what sounds stupid and what doesn’t I’m like hella out of the loop I’m gonna google it 🥹
It’s gonna be hard tho because like I assosciate this name with myself everywhere and I don’t want to be forgotten yk
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@mik3_ Ok you do that
Well, I can see that as well, but I'm not gonna forget you bc of it so you've got one thing
I really wish I had some better advice, I'm sorry
@tyler_x it’s okay, this was lwk out of the blue I’ve just had a lot of time to think today because I’ve being doing literally nothing but sleeping
I just have good memories with this name, but then I have horrible memories with this name, and I like can’t handle it
Then again I have no clue what else to go by
𝘏𝘦𝘺! 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯!
αωω мαη, му ƒυ¢кιηg נαуѕ!!
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴋᴇᴘᴛ ᴏɴ sᴘɪɴɴɪɴɢ.
𝘐'𝘝𝘌 𝘎𝘖𝘛 𝘉𝘓𝘐𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘙𝘚 𝘖𝘕 𝘔𝘌 𝘍𝘐𝘕𝘎𝘌𝘙𝘚!!
HYAHH!!Babe the residents are residenting evilly again
₍ᐢ⑅•ᴗ•⑅ᐢ₎♡
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@tyler_x it’s okay, this was lwk out of the blue I’ve just had a lot of time to think today because I’ve being doing literally nothing but sleeping
I just have good memories with this name, but then I have horrible memories with this name, and I like can’t handle it
Then again I have no clue what else to go by
@mik3_ I've had the same problem before, but it didn't really upset me enough to the point of changing. If it really bothers you, maybe you should start looking for something new? If you want. There are likely a lot of lists online.
If it makes you feel any better, it won't bother me. Yes, it's grown on me and that's what I've always known you by, but at the end of the day you'll always be the same person I fell in love with and a word that people call you by will never effect that. So yk. Just tell me if you do decide to go with something different.
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@mik3_ I've had the same problem before, but it didn't really upset me enough to the point of changing. If it really bothers you, maybe you should start looking for something new? If you want. There are likely a lot of lists online.
If it makes you feel any better, it won't bother me. Yes, it's grown on me and that's what I've always known you by, but at the end of the day you'll always be the same person I fell in love with and a word that people call you by will never effect that. So yk. Just tell me if you do decide to go with something different.
@tyler_x yeah I’m definitely going to look for a new one, even though I’m gonna miss it. I mean I’m also fourteen so it’s still like not set in stone until I legally change it. I’m gonna do my research though
It’s mainly just bad people trying to come back in my life, I can’t handle hearing them say that name it makes me feel gross. You’re different, of course, but I just can’t handle hearing the same name yk. I’ll update you when I find a better one
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@mik3_ I've had the same problem before, but it didn't really upset me enough to the point of changing. If it really bothers you, maybe you should start looking for something new? If you want. There are likely a lot of lists online.
If it makes you feel any better, it won't bother me. Yes, it's grown on me and that's what I've always known you by, but at the end of the day you'll always be the same person I fell in love with and a word that people call you by will never effect that. So yk. Just tell me if you do decide to go with something different.
@tyler_x okay uh I did a bit of research and I think Leo/leon might fit. I think it’s a cool name and it feels kind of comfortable on me. I like it I think. But like I want your opinion on it
𝘏𝘦𝘺! 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯!
αωω мαη, му ƒυ¢кιηg נαуѕ!!
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴋᴇᴘᴛ ᴏɴ sᴘɪɴɴɪɴɢ.
𝘐'𝘝𝘌 𝘎𝘖𝘛 𝘉𝘓𝘐𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘙𝘚 𝘖𝘕 𝘔𝘌 𝘍𝘐𝘕𝘎𝘌𝘙𝘚!!
HYAHH!!Babe the residents are residenting evilly again
₍ᐢ⑅•ᴗ•⑅ᐢ₎♡
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@tyler_x okay uh I did a bit of research and I think Leo/leon might fit. I think it’s a cool name and it feels kind of comfortable on me. I like it I think. But like I want your opinion on it
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@tyler_x okay I’m gonna change my username I’m scare
𝘏𝘦𝘺! 𝘓𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯!
αωω мαη, му ƒυ¢кιηg נαуѕ!!
ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴋᴇᴘᴛ ᴏɴ sᴘɪɴɴɪɴɢ.
𝘐'𝘝𝘌 𝘎𝘖𝘛 𝘉𝘓𝘐𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘙𝘚 𝘖𝘕 𝘔𝘌 𝘍𝘐𝘕𝘎𝘌𝘙𝘚!!
HYAHH!!Babe the residents are residenting evilly again
₍ᐢ⑅•ᴗ•⑅ᐢ₎♡
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@L3on_ wait i like it a lot actually
i was scared you were gonna pick something stupid and i was gonna have to pretend to like it but its actually cute
@tyler_x YAYY I’m glad you like it hurrahh I was afraid you’d hate it
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