You can disagree with me and have different perspectives but i won’t respond to any overly rude or aggressive language
I’ve been thinking abt this for a minute and it’s actually weird how young boys are socialized to accept things they KNOW are regarded as SA but are still expected to laugh it off or take it as a “flex” 😭
Like from early on it’s framed as “you’re lucky”r“you should want that” instead of what it actually is—your boundaries being crossed. So now you’ve got boys who are uncomfortable but feel like they’re not even allowed to say that, because admitting it ruins the image that they’re supposed to always want sexual attention.
And then trends like “catching print” literally just build on that.
It’s normalized to point it out, record it, laugh about it, and treat someone’s body like it’s public property—and if a guy is uncomfortable, it’s brushed off because “it’s not that serious.” That’s not just a trend, it’s a direct result of that same socialization.
And at the same time, it feeds into the exact system people claim to hate.
Because if the goal is to break down objectification, why are we recreating it in a different direction? I’m going to be straight and honest,being a sexual predator ahould NOT in any cases be seen as empowering or uplifting
Also not enough ppl talk abt how equating a small print (A print) to women’s cup sizes is weird in itself 😭 it literally just reinforces the same body standards that make women with smaller cup sizes feel insecure in the first place. Like we’re just recycling the same harmful scale and pretending it’s different when it’s obviously not,how do you claim to hate the beauty standards for women and uphold them to put down a man,it doesnt make sense
And honestly, this trend proves that a lot of ppl don’t actually want to dismantle the patriarchy—they just want to benefit from it when it works in their favor and have an excuse to be the perpetrator.
Because the bigger issue is the cycle it creates.
Boys get socialized to ignore their own boundaries → they grow up not respecting boundaries → that turns into objectification of women → women experience that and grow resentment → that resentment turns into wanting to harm or get back at men → which then reinforces men’s hostility towards women. (Idgaf abt anyone saying that I’m the problem or thag I’m victim blaming bc I’m saying It how it is,modern women are going to be the direct cause of future misogyny and abuse if they keep using their struggle as an excuse to perpetuate)
It just loops.
Nobody wins, and it just keeps feeding itself eternally
And then ppl wonder why everything feels so divided when we’re literally teaching each other to not take boundaries seriously from the start, young boys are taught to be sexual and told that it’s their nature and that leads them directly doen a path of expecting to get laid or feeling entitled to a women’s body,allowing those same boys to get assaulted and have their perception of intimacy skewers only worsens their beliefs
If like to hear about how
Women are socialized,I am not educated or knowledgeable enough to post about that nor do I have the experience to back up my claims
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