Hey yalll!!!

Gamizavier

@Echo_isn-t_here fg??

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@Gamizavier Short for Friend Group

w1ckedsticky1983

If they're continuously a sexualizng you, let them know that its making you uncomfortable; talk with them. If they keep doing it, you should drop them. Normal friends don't do that, but its better to let them know how you feel about it. Its not good to let that sort of behavior slide.

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@w1ckedsticky1983 I have, Even my best friend LS keept telling her to stop sexualizing me, but L doesnt wanna listen to us. and i CAN NOT tell LS.

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here Then how about you leave L behind? Its definitely not just an issue between you and them, it involves other people from what it sounds like 😭 its better to have no friends than be surrounded by shitty people

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@w1ckedsticky1983 this is stressing me out. And also i have plans with L already so i cant drop her, I cant tell LS bc im on switch and im POSITIVE my parents arent getting me a phone like they said they would. and if i tell L to stop if she does start again, she'll be like: "awwww....Why notttttt?" like a whiney 2 year old.

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here What plans exactly? Also, you really can drop her, jyst be upfront about it and if she bugs you or acts like a [censored]: ignore it. If they start whining, it jyst shows their lack of maturity and it could be another reason you could tell her you don't wanna be friends anymore. I feel like the switch thing could even make it easier to lose communication with them,, but I digress. Just be firm about your choices if you do wanna leave them ;P

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@w1ckedsticky1983
Plans i have with L: Halloween, Going to her house on the 19th,
I physically cant drop her, bc i dont wanna be mean, and i dont want L taking it in the most terrible direction. And i'm suppose to be the nice one in the fg.

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here Social roles don't necessarily matter,, but whatevz. Being "mean" can also show that you're not a pushover; which is what the 'nice friend' is often seen as, but that's besides the point. You can always just make plans with other people for those events and allat. As for her harming herself, that's not your problem. that sounds harsh, but its the truth. You're not responsible for someone else's life. Especially since they don't even care enough to respect how you feel yourself 😞

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@w1ckedsticky1983 Alr, once im able to get discord and stuff, i'll try and talk it out more throughly with L, and if she doesnt comply, I'll tell LS (she started our fg, she could kick L out if she was a big problem) And see how that goes.

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here Good choice. Also, if you're really worried about them doing something stupid, just know that if they do, its not your fault. The person is most likely doing it out of external factors you, yourself, cannot control. Majority of the time they're only bluffing, but either way; it's not your fault. Its also a manipulation tactic to get other people to stay,,, but you get the point I'm making PX

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@w1ckedsticky1983 i get the point, thx for the advice ^^

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here Ywww!! I'm always here if you need help. I've been through a lot lolz,,,

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@w1ckedsticky1983 and thats ok twin, if u also ever wanna vent, lmk my dm's are always open :3

w1ckedsticky1983

@Echo_isn-t_here Dww,, its okay. I dont need to, but my DMs are always open if you wanna vent, need advice, or just even talk <3

KiwiFarmsArkavel

if i was in your shoes (in that scenario), i wouldve literally just bursted in flames on the spot and just go on a psychotic breakdown

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@KiwiFarmsArkavel pft- what???

KiwiFarmsArkavel

@Echo_isn-t_here said in Hey yalll!!!:

@KiwiFarmsArkavel pft- what???

im not joking, im quite serious

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@KiwiFarmsArkavel oh.

KiwiFarmsArkavel

there was a loser that was younger than i am where he made _____ ______ of both me and _________ against our will (art-wise obv)