Yumeshippers Are Weird. (Opinion)
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There's a buncha reasons why i think yumeshipping is weird. For one, it's EXTREMELY parasocial. No, your "f/o" does not know you exist, your ship is not valid. cry abt it. Second, I find it weird that you'd care for a fictional character that mind you; ISNT EVEN REAL more than an ACTUAL human being with REAL emotions and thoughts. There's a bunch of other options, you can online date or date somebody in person. Why on earth would you date a fictional character? Also, the non sharing yumeshippers are weird, why are you going out of your way to harrass somebody who is just as weird as you who likes the same character as you? This is just what i think.
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Not all non-sharing yumes harass their doubles, and some people who Yumeship do it due to them being AroAce, or as a way to comfort themself, as medical help is expensive.
Yumeshippers KNOW their f/o isn't real. It's literally part of the term f/o (Fictional other) And if they pass that barrier of the character being fictional, THEN it's more suggested to get SOME sort of help, of any degree.
Of COURSE People's F/o doesn't know the Yumeshipper exists, it's a FICTIONAL-[censored]-CHARACTER. The only exception to that would be if the yumeshipper was FEATURED in that Character's media., Which doesn't happen often. (Example, The Allan Yumeshipper who was featured as his muse in one of the final episodes of smiling friends)
Yumeshippers KNOW Their ship isn't canon unless it is PHYSICALLY SHOWN/INTERPRETED IN THEIR F/O'S MEDIA.
People who yumeship with Monika from DDLC for example, WOULD BE CANON, as she Isn't in love with the MC as a CHARACTER, but with the person CONTROLLING the MC, aka, the player. (Same thing goes with any Character that you can ACTIVELY INTERACT WITH, WHO ALSO BREAKS THE FOURTH WALL.)
Also, So many people have made this argument, all using the same reasons you did. If you're going to say something, make different arguments and actually do research on the topic.
This is all just my opinion on this, like you.
But unlike you, I've done my research.Wolfie had faith in me to come back.
I have faith in him to do the same.
He knew I would find him.
I know He'll find me.
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@ange
Not all non-sharing yumes harass their doubles, and some people who Yumeship do it due to them being AroAce, or as a way to comfort themself, as medical help is expensive.
Yumeshippers KNOW their f/o isn't real. It's literally part of the term f/o (Fictional other) And if they pass that barrier of the character being fictional, THEN it's more suggested to get SOME sort of help, of any degree.
Of COURSE People's F/o doesn't know the Yumeshipper exists, it's a FICTIONAL-[censored]-CHARACTER. The only exception to that would be if the yumeshipper was FEATURED in that Character's media., Which doesn't happen often. (Example, The Allan Yumeshipper who was featured as his muse in one of the final episodes of smiling friends)
Yumeshippers KNOW Their ship isn't canon unless it is PHYSICALLY SHOWN/INTERPRETED IN THEIR F/O'S MEDIA.
People who yumeship with Monika from DDLC for example, WOULD BE CANON, as she Isn't in love with the MC as a CHARACTER, but with the person CONTROLLING the MC, aka, the player. (Same thing goes with any Character that you can ACTIVELY INTERACT WITH, WHO ALSO BREAKS THE FOURTH WALL.)
Also, So many people have made this argument, all using the same reasons you did. If you're going to say something, make different arguments and actually do research on the topic.
This is all just my opinion on this, like you.
But unlike you, I've done my research. -
@ange
Not all non-sharing yumes harass their doubles, and some people who Yumeship do it due to them being AroAce, or as a way to comfort themself, as medical help is expensive.
Yumeshippers KNOW their f/o isn't real. It's literally part of the term f/o (Fictional other) And if they pass that barrier of the character being fictional, THEN it's more suggested to get SOME sort of help, of any degree.
Of COURSE People's F/o doesn't know the Yumeshipper exists, it's a FICTIONAL-[censored]-CHARACTER. The only exception to that would be if the yumeshipper was FEATURED in that Character's media., Which doesn't happen often. (Example, The Allan Yumeshipper who was featured as his muse in one of the final episodes of smiling friends)
Yumeshippers KNOW Their ship isn't canon unless it is PHYSICALLY SHOWN/INTERPRETED IN THEIR F/O'S MEDIA.
People who yumeship with Monika from DDLC for example, WOULD BE CANON, as she Isn't in love with the MC as a CHARACTER, but with the person CONTROLLING the MC, aka, the player. (Same thing goes with any Character that you can ACTIVELY INTERACT WITH, WHO ALSO BREAKS THE FOURTH WALL.)
Also, So many people have made this argument, all using the same reasons you did. If you're going to say something, make different arguments and actually do research on the topic.
This is all just my opinion on this, like you.
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I personally yumeship because, it brings me comfort
Yumeshipper's do NOT thing they are genuinely dating their f/o's are that their f/os are real
This argument is annoying, honestly -
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Oh yeah, and before you say, "well the rpf yume-" a few bad apples don't ruin the whole bunch. yumeshipping is rooted in fandom culture, and as long as there is fandom, yumeshipping will too. it'll live longer than fandom too, most likely
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@ange
Not all non-sharing yumes harass their doubles, and some people who Yumeship do it due to them being AroAce, or as a way to comfort themself, as medical help is expensive.
Yumeshippers KNOW their f/o isn't real. It's literally part of the term f/o (Fictional other) And if they pass that barrier of the character being fictional, THEN it's more suggested to get SOME sort of help, of any degree.
Of COURSE People's F/o doesn't know the Yumeshipper exists, it's a FICTIONAL-[censored]-CHARACTER. The only exception to that would be if the yumeshipper was FEATURED in that Character's media., Which doesn't happen often. (Example, The Allan Yumeshipper who was featured as his muse in one of the final episodes of smiling friends)
Yumeshippers KNOW Their ship isn't canon unless it is PHYSICALLY SHOWN/INTERPRETED IN THEIR F/O'S MEDIA.
People who yumeship with Monika from DDLC for example, WOULD BE CANON, as she Isn't in love with the MC as a CHARACTER, but with the person CONTROLLING the MC, aka, the player. (Same thing goes with any Character that you can ACTIVELY INTERACT WITH, WHO ALSO BREAKS THE FOURTH WALL.)
Also, So many people have made this argument, all using the same reasons you did. If you're going to say something, make different arguments and actually do research on the topic.
This is all just my opinion on this, like you.
But unlike you, I've done my research. -
this "opinion" oddly felt strange.. but ig im neutral idm if someone is or isnt, imo... everyone needs to shush about "but, this and that" and realise, a yumeshipper is them... not you, why should it matter... they are happy, they are them... so let people be themselves
edit: from what ive learned.. they do it for comfort.. its not like they hurt you in any way, i think that posts like this feel like its just trying to damage those people. ill personally support those who do, because they need comfort, a good friend... it feel like if someone says "i dont like anyone who likes anime, because i dont like anime" but you miss out on the friends who like anime.. but are nice people.. this is my input
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There's a buncha reasons why i think yumeshipping is weird. For one, it's EXTREMELY parasocial. No, your "f/o" does not know you exist, your ship is not valid. cry abt it. Second, I find it weird that you'd care for a fictional character that mind you; ISNT EVEN REAL more than an ACTUAL human being with REAL emotions and thoughts. There's a bunch of other options, you can online date or date somebody in person. Why on earth would you date a fictional character? Also, the non sharing yumeshippers are weird, why are you going out of your way to harrass somebody who is just as weird as you who likes the same character as you? This is just what i think.
@ange I wonder how ppl who are dating yumeshippers deal with them, Is it hard or do they just let them?
(MY OPINION), if i was dating you and u were shipping urself w a fictional character or like anyone in general i would find it weird (i mean as long as they’re putting effort to the relationship them were good) but if ur deadass putting like all ur time on the oc then were done bc at that point ur just basically dating no one -
@ange I wonder how ppl who are dating yumeshippers deal with them, Is it hard or do they just let them?
(MY OPINION), if i was dating you and u were shipping urself w a fictional character or like anyone in general i would find it weird (i mean as long as they’re putting effort to the relationship them were good) but if ur deadass putting like all ur time on the oc then were done bc at that point ur just basically dating no onemb for some wrong spelling issues but all i want to know is how do ppl deal w them (not asking for an argument)
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mb for some wrong spelling issues but all i want to know is how do ppl deal w them (not asking for an argument)
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If someone is spending a majority of the time on their yumeship and hyperfixating on it, then it becomes an issue. But once again, yumeshipping is sorta like a hobby for fun and shouldn't be taken seriously, and most really don't.
Not sure if this made sense, but hope it helped a bit-
