Rip Tarmac

[tyler_x]

One of the more likeable users of BDNS. Probably my personal favourite user I've interacted with.

Not to name any names but just by a quick look in Shoutbox, some of you are already being so disrespectful and shit and I'm not sure why.

That is not the purpose of this post though. I'm writing this in honor of SweetLikeTarmac's account and to wish nothing but the best.

Farewell and goodnight

[WeedAreTheWorld]

Actually everything was started by Tarmac themself ok

[macncheese.]

Im not pointing any fingers or anything,nor am i calling out names, nor do i want to stir up drama but...
The guys kinda a [censored] ik but like u rly shouldn't take him to heart hes like a master in ragebait ngl
N leaving him alone js makes u the better person overall
Still no offence to the supposed [censored] I'm talking abt
Oh well goodbye tarmac ig

[macncheese.]

N its like shoutbox
Shoutbox is a hellhole for losers
Dont take anything seriously there

[tyler_x]

@WeedAreTheWorld Tried scrolling up further but nothing was showing up. Would you care to elaborate actually just so I can get the full picture?

[tyler_x]

@macncheese. Eh yeah but still it kinda felt disapointing to see

[tyler_x]

Also hey my topic is back

[JadeF1re]

Hey I wasn't here for most of the tarmac situation because i had to go somewhere

i really only remember tarmac saying super mean things to the other people in shitbox, and they got madder when i said "this is very meanliketarmac "

Either way someone being so shitty they made big tarmac delete their account is probably worthy of deleting their own

[bellaugh]

they (tarmac) actually started it. i was so confused because they were being so mean and rude for no reason at all. i thought rory and tarmac was actually like, kinda playfighting or flirting and i genuinely thought that, until suddenly they mention me on their quitting post like lol what did i do?

i wasnt there for the rest of the conversation but when i joined they were clowning on a user named jyatil (AND ARIES) which, okay, sure whatever. (tarmac also clowned on both of those users btw)

i thought they were being edgy or mean for no reason bcs they were having a bad day but that was it also the things we said weren’t that deep. THEY were being personal saying things like “nobody loves you” and like “at least my parents kept me”. furthermore they said kinda homophobic things.

then raven joined and stopped everything (kinda but not really) and tarmac started saying shitty things again.

so im sorry but you cant justify that behaviour. and besides, the conversation was the straw that broke the camel’s back—its not like they were dying to stay? tarmac literally said theyve been planning to leave for a while so why blame that on the people in shoutbox?

[Storjez43..]

drama all the time man.

[Storjez43..]

@bellaugh I think I remember tarmac saying they were gonna leave like a bit after I joined.

[macncheese.]

@bellaugh damn its rly nice to see the full picture
Shoutbox rly is a hellhole

[bellaugh]

@Erika43 im not sure about that but in their very post that they said they were leaving, they said that it was a long time coming. so why tf blame it on other people?

first of all, i thought everything was pretty fine because it all ended on a good note, they even said some chill messages before disappearing from the shitbox at all.

second, saying that new users suck is kinda offensive. just because you’re someone who’s been on a platform long enough to say it doesn’t mean you have to say it. for example; myself. im a new user, and???? if they truly wanted to avoid being mean/rude they could’ve said specific new users but not all of us in general.

furthermore, all they wanted to do was have a “daily shitbox argument” implying that they’ve definitely done this before as well. so who is the problem here?

third, they should’ve been mature and actually addressed the situation instead of acting on a whim , like QUITTING. they should’ve talked to us in dms and talked about how they felt about the things we said and apologized. i personally believe i didnt say anything offensive but i understand people can be sensitive.

[Storjez43..]

@macncheese. ''It's a shitbox!'' -Niki Lauda, 1976

[Storjez43..]

@bellaugh point 2 really annoys me because ik that from the fanbase of a musician I like. tbf I wasn't there so I have to believe you here and ngl this just makes me sad because I actually liked tarmac. never meet your heroes man.

[Yanderemenhera]

@bellaugh I'm going to be honest, I never use shitbox because istg at any given time there's always someone ready to start something because this site feeds off of petty drama, I have a hard time taking the userbase seriously when every few days it's always "pick a side" in some stupid user drama of someone being an asshole, someone reacting to the asshole behavior, then the asshole using some buzz word or something to gain sympathy from other people and the person reacting to the asshole behavior becomes the bad guy. very rarely is it anything serious or "that deep" istg. and one of the reasons why I stay is because this site attracts some of the stupidest kids ever and I find it somewhat intertaining to look at the fresh new "drama" every few days like some Korean drama without the Romance or the atmosphere.

this isn't even about this drama, this is about drama on this site in general. I'm convinced I could make an alt account, make the alt account say and do the worst shit imaginable then say i'm mentally ill and people would excuse me from accountability or I could have me and my alt get into a mild disagreement over something as random as energy drink flavors or what "goth" is and then work it out in a post and people would pick sides and it'd be an all out shit show

and the funny thing is, it doesn't even matter because everyone would forget about it a week or less because as much as people love to hate, people have the memory of a goldfish and there's always some new, fun drama to argue about.

this forum is an amazing social experiment, some socioligest needs to dedicate an entire research paper on this forum istg I don't think in a million years I will open shit box without being pinged

[macncheese.]

@Yanderemenhera ppl love drama ig

[Storjez43..]

@Yanderemenhera exactly this. why can't we all just get along that would be like way more fun

[Yanderemenhera]

@bellaugh it's not the new users, i've been here for well over a year and I think it's always been like this, except for when this was a tech forum with an older userbase disscussing nintendo

[macncheese.]

@Yanderemenhera we should takk abt nintendo here more ngl