Boys Are Being Conditioned to Accept SA—and “catching print” Proves Nobody Wants to Fix It

w1ckedsticky1983

@Johnny.SS I honestly should have mentioned the [censored]-avoidant sides in my previous statement, not every trauma leads them to becoming hypersexual. Often times it's the complete opposite, becoming [censored]-avoidant.

There's an amazing movie, not sure if you've seen it, but it's titled Mysterious Skin. The film and book both show the aftermath of two boys being molested as children. I won't go too in depth, but it's a great portrayal of two sides of the coin on what happens due to their experiences. Major trigger warning though, some scenes are hard to watch.

BBQboi-_-

@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 I’ll
Look into it sometime over the weekend

Yanderemenhera

@Johnny.SS you'd def like happy sugar life

w1ckedsticky1983

@Johnny.SS you should, it's legit in my top 3 films 🥹 it's beautifully shot movie, yet it doesn't romanticize any of it, nor does it make it completely overly edgy, which is a gripe I have about most recent films dedicated to shedding light on trauma's like these.

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@Yanderemenhera no he wouldn't (trust)

BBQboi-_-

@_Izzy_ how come?

Yanderemenhera

@Johnny.SS the anime adaptaion isn't terrible, but it cuts important context, the people who made it didn't do a great job with art either so it comes off as a gross yandere anime to some people due to a lot of the art being toned down to the point some viewers forget its a psychological horror. but most people i've seen online regard it as a great show dealing with tabo subjects, very real horror, and abuse cycles. in my opinion, if you watch the anime, and hate it i'd say just read the manga instead. happy sugar life is damn near impossible to find in stores, but you can buy it online. it's 16+ btw
its story with its art will make you uncomfortable. it doesn't rely on [censored] to envoke fear, it uses its theams and imagery to do so.

Biblecampvictim

@Johnny.SS something serious

BBQboi-_-

@Biblecampvictim gtfu off my post

w1ckedsticky1983

Anyways, back to the main topic at hand 🥹

I know that my "takes" are pretty surface level, which is because I dunno how in depth I can go about these topics without being censored, but whatevz.

I've been thinking about how this kind of behavior is just reinforcing the fact that as time goes on, more people are being taught to believe that their bodies are sexual objects. I mean, how sad is it that people can't even look at individuals normally without their minds going straight towards wondering "how big they are in bed." :(
Same goes for women, theyre the prime target for objectification, no matter how old or young. It's primarily done by creeps, but I think you get what I mean.
Most people can't even look at the human body without staring at gentials, and being like: "hahaha..DIH!! hahahaha... BOOBZ!? "
I'm not even a purist, I just believe that there's a time and place for sexual comments and it's wrong to be doing all of this out in public. Which, might I add, shouldn't even be a discussion. It should just be standard humanitarian values

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@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 i agree, i dont mind dirty jokes, but my friends and art class are so sexual and i used to be outta pocket too but thats when i was 12-13... these are near grown [censored] women talking all kinda crazy things and commenting on eachothers bodies like...

"you have the body of a child but the [censored] of a grown women" - abt to be a grown [censored] women talkin to a freshmen btw TvT

w1ckedsticky1983

@_Izzy_ yo- what the hell a basically grownass women was saying that to a FRESHMAN?? Saying that to someone in general is weird, but ZAWG they quite literally JUST got out of middle school it's kinda scary how many times I've been told that as well, or at least smth similar
Nah, cuz like- I'm all for making sexual jokes or comments myself, I say em quote often actually- but there's just certain boundaries that people needa understand. Sometimes people need to read the room and understand that some things should go left unsaid

BBQboi-_-

@Sup3rSwaggyy1983 she deopped it so casually as well,it was so hard for me to hear,it’s weird and hella embarrassing