The fetishization of representation

[Johnny.SS]

@ladiesman217 imma be honest but I just DONT like people like you,this is such a lazy mindset to have

[A Former User]

anyways i think gay representation is stupidly fetishized, even popular gay ships are usually more abt ppl just wanting them to be gay just for the sake of it rather then the characters actually being compatible (a good example is the trash ship that is bakugo x deku)

[A Former User]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ i was thinking the same thing but i dont wana shut ppl down, plus it is important to not let these things like ruin your day or whatever the point was

[Johnny.SS]

@_Izzy_ it died didn’t ruin my day but its uninspired to just say “Thats just the way it is” bc Thats WHY so much issues are still here today 😭

[A Former User]

i think helluva boss has alot of feishized gay representation but idk if ppl agree bc the show is just inherently sexual

[A Former User]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ yeah i agree, it feels like giving up to just like not talk abt it because thinking about it will make you feel upset

[A Former User]

i think the fact that ppl dont talk abt it is upsetting, i personally feel good when i talk abt these issues and ppl agree

[Johnny.SS]

@_Izzy_ people have gotten too comfortable with the “we have gone so far” mindset bc they believe that there’s minimal room for improvement and Thats far from the truth

[A Former User]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ this is true but i think ppl engage in this mindset bc honestly how are you supposed to actually make a difference? for me all i can do is encourage discussion and try to have respectful rep in my own comics and stories

[A Former User]

but yeah society is far from perfect rn TvT

[Johnny.SS]

@_Izzy_ I don’t even feel it’s that hard and doesn’t even need to be anything crazy,just acknowledgment and not “people will be people” bc that removes accountability and takes away from the fact that it’s an actual issue

[BritishUnity]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ I agree I never really minded it though sure the ones that go to far then I'm like ehhhhh but to some extent I don't hate it I only hate it if there only there because they think the charcters hot like if ur there cause of the plot and the hot thennn ehhh idrm

[Johnny.SS]

@BritishUnity if you like gooning just say that lil bro💔

[A Former User]

@BritishUnity well most ppl dont mind until it's a group their a part of only being talked abt when their sexualized

[A Former User]

but i agree that not all sexualization is bad, but actively fetishizing a group of people is just dehumanizing and ruins representation.

[BritishUnity]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ nah I just don't hate the ppl that do it and don't believe they should be shamed for it

[BritishUnity]

@_Izzy_ yeah true but depending on the context most side characters if they get fetishized chances are no one cares for there plot because there's side character side characters even out of this are just forgotten/ignored so this is the only way they actually get noticed lmao besides the few that think they're amazing so that you can't stop mc tho they usually have a huge range of normality and other side when they don't have normality at all then that's the point it gets annoying lol

[Yanderemenhera]

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[A Former User]

@BritishUnity sexualizing and FETISHIZING are different, my fualt for using the world sexualizing

i dont mind sexualization as long as its done tastfully and is appropriate for the character (the character isnt rlly young or smth)

but fetishization of minorities is [censored] disgusting
as a girl afro-hispanic person its actually very annoying when the only time people want to see or appreciate people like you is when they think you're hot and want to fantasize about you

i understand why yall dont care bc you probably cant relate and it doesnt seem like a big deal but it actually does make some people upset and is just dehumanizing once again

i think women in general are easily the most common victim of this but alot of female characters are WAYYY better now

anyway thats just my opinion, i obviously get why yall dont see the big deal or dont care but there is a valid reason as to why some ppl do care and want to talk abt it

anyway this is just my opinion:P

[A Former User]

@Ⴑohnny.ƧƧ i think ppl are misunderstanding the point of this post, it seems they think we mean sexualizing characters in general, i want to kinda remind them of the point but i feel like you would be able to articulate it better then me, like the difference between sexualization and fetishizing